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LIVING ALONE and WHY I CHOOSE TO
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LIVING ALONE and WHY I CHOOSE TO **First you start talking. After, that the Men ask you out for a date. An then a few more after that. Then they end up coming over all the time. Soon, they are either living with you all the time. Or, want you to go to their house all the time. **Being a FEMALE: What do you do, if you have at home? Do you have a curfew? visitors? Should you allow the (s)to meet the guy, or any guys at all? **What if he turns out to be a JERK, and it hurts your (s)? How are they going to feel? **Who pays for all the babysitting while the guy wants you to go out on all these dates? **Are you feeling guilty about leaving your to have fun? *Should you limit the number of dates, you go out on per guy. In order not to get attached to any guy? ***SHOULD YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR JUST ANOTHER DATE? These are some of the many Questions WOMEN struggle with when you ask them out. **Sometimes it's hard to answer a GUY, when he asks you out on a date. Because of very things going through your head. **MEN have made it difficult on themselves. **Most, WOMEN no longer TRUST or DEPEND on them. ***MEN wonder WHY? It is so hard to find a GOOD WOMAN. ***Mankind can credit other MEN for the way things are. ***A lot MEN and WOMAN are now living alone. **Yes, some people get Married then Divorced. Others live together for a while. **How do we fix it? ***These are all QUESTIONS GUYS never think of. **So, the next time you get ready to ask a Lady out. *Find out about her first. *It might save you from her turning you down. *Talk about these issues. *Find solutions to these problems first before asking her out. *She'll more then likely tell you "YES", and NOT I can't BECAUSE... ***HELP SOLVE THE PROBLEM NOT BE A PART OF IT!  PS this MOM thinks of her first.   Lil Red Riddin Hood COPYRIGHT PICTURE LAWS APPLY  |
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In the world today seems as if people are putting up false fronts for a bit of quick pleasure.....You are right in your statements....Only the guys or gals with childern truly know and understand what it takes to raise a child nowdays.....If the guy is not willing to help solve these problems and accept you as a family not just you for fun and games well you and others like you need to look elsewhere,,because there are a few of us that do look at the whole picture....
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9/26/2007 2:38 pm |
You are right! These times and our fast paced culture have really isolated women and men from each other. The trust factor is indeed the core problem with trying to engage in a relationship it seems as long time marriages become unstable and sometimes disolve. Men and women then get tired of meeting the wrong or incompatable people and often just won't make the effort to open doors and access their hearts and feelings, thinking they will just be hurt or turned away again. On the other issues, I feel the man should cover the sitter expenses and above all, which you know, the children must come first. searchlight53
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9/25/2007 3:59 pm |
Have to totally agree with 52gold, but would also add that that the guy should also pay for the baby setter as he is the one that wants you to go out, and if and when you feel it is alright for him to meet the kids then he should be willing to do things with you and your kids together. Also you should have your mind made up on what type of a relationship that you want and discuss the ground rules before you start and if he is a true man he will respect your decisions, but I am sorry to say that if you decide to stop seeing someone that there will be those that you will have trouble getting rid of them so be careful in your searches!!! and by all means kids first as I do with mine and if he can't respect that then you don't need or want him.
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