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More thoughts from my cluttered mind!
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More thoughts from my cluttered mind! Do you accept people as they are was a recent question asked in the magazine’s Advice Line and it got me thinking about an old girl friend. I was in the process of navigating my way through my move to Sacramento and was invited for a night out from a new friend from the gym who was meeting some friends and work colleagues for some drinks. Where I was sitting I had a good look at the door and this gorgeous blonde woman with a red leather shirt and matching shoes with a sexy white top came walking toward our table, and I was hoping that she was part of the group. My prayers were answered. She had the most beautiful blue memorizing eyes I had ever seen. It was a great evening as we all had a good time dancing and drinking. She apparently had too much to drink and wanted to take me home with her, but her girl friends wouldn’t let her, which was the correct thing to do, but I did get her number. We started to date. I was already in love with her. This is where it gets confusing. One morning over breakfast she tells me that she wants me to feel comfortable in her home, treat it as if it my own, turn on the radio if I want and put whatever station I want on and she gives me a key to her house. Here are two scenarios. Well one day I put on the radio and she comes storming out of her room wanting to know why turned on the radio and why would I want to listen to that station? We had a date planned and when I got there, rang the bell and she didn’t answer so I used the key. Evidently this was a big mistake on my part. You see growing up in my neighborhood nobody locked their house. We would go to our friends house knock on the door and walk in and if dinner was on the table we’d get a dish and help ourselves. Shame on me for thinking everyone grew up like I did. This lead to a huge disagreement and I found out some things about how she had a poor family life with a controlling and non sexual abusing father and she was seeing a counselor. I wanted to try and make it work, but no amount of communicating helped and we stopping seeing one another. Some time later we ran into one another at a singles function. We talked a bit and were pleasant. I saw a woman that I had met through one of those women charity events where they bid on men for dates, had a drink and we were talking. When all of a sudden my ex girl comes up grabs me and hustles me off to the dance floor. She ended up taking me home with her that night and we fucked our brains out; the best sex we ever had. I thought that I just got lucky and she was horny. I’m thinking that maybe I shouldn’t have let little Ceedee out think big Ceedee, but we all know who wins that argument. We started to date again and, well, stupid me, the same shit happens and we have never spoke again. Well I don’t know what any of this has to do with the question that was asked in the AL, but see what happens when I start to think. You all have a great weekend, and a pleasant week ahead. Speaking of head……never mind.  � CEEDEE � CEEDEE I suffer from delusions of grandeur |
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I sort of get what you are saying. I think your ex didn't really accept you for who you are and how you are, but wanted things her way and didn't come to any compromise. Whenever two people combine into a relationship, there are going to be issues and only the successful one work out a way to compromise each other into their lives. It sounds like you and she are best done. At least when not tangling the sheets. 
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