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It's been a while... (A reflection on returning to AFF)  

BigBootyfulWoman 45F
63 posts
10/23/2014 5:12 am
It's been a while... (A reflection on returning to AFF)

So it has really been a while since I've posted to my blog. Life is an adventure, and things change ...hopefully getting more exciting. I have been on and off the site for a couple years. My account will sit and gold status, and collect the odd email in passing. Sometimes I will go to the blogs and read about the frustration of others and trying to connect. The biggest challenge always seems to be distance and location.
Much like other another dating sites, this place is also a haven for people with great emotional insecurities. ...Especially on the side of females. It is common to run into a woman Who is trying to initiate a relationship before even meeting. Not to say that men here are without issues. My preference is always been an older man. Now that I'm 35, what of you as older is more specific. Experience has taught me to try to have opened mind, so I am expanding my focus to guys that are usually around the age of 40 and up.
The challenge for me is connecting with a likable older man is dealing with their availability and they're growing tendency to have some sort of erectile dysfunction and as they age. The fire is still hot, but the chimney is not putting out smoke. I understand the need for sexual pleasure and the desire to be wanted, but I feel that this important information that should be disclosed to a potential partner because everyone's time here it's valuable. I haven't given up hope, just have adopted a more cautious outlook. I know there is someone out there who can be a real and honest friend, revel in sexual creativity, and match my high demand libido.
Kisses!
-J.


oral2plsu2 64M
5820 posts
10/23/2014 5:30 am

I'm 55 and if I were in Texas would love to start a nice fire with you.


BigBootyfulWoman replies on 10/24/2014 4:41 am:
Well I'll definitely take that as a compliment

BigBootyfulWoman 45F
43 posts
10/27/2014 4:41 am

post script:
It's not that I'm against younger men, there just always seem to be personality conflicts.maturity seems hard to come by in people under 30.


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