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No no no no no.....the best lover I have ever had I met in 2012 and he was age 60 at that time. We were hot and heavy for the next 5 years. He is now 65 and I am 62...Best passionate deep sex I have ever experienced. When he had any doubts, he would always call me his "natural viagra" and he performed FINE. {=} {=} {=} KCClaire0923
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Queen Lala, you are here to bless us with your insight, wit and intelligence. I agree though, 55 is really old. You need someone younger...late 40's. That's the best age...we've aged nicely, but haven't yet gone to seed... only joking. Age isn't important. It's the person.
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I think it's difficult for most folks in their 50's - men AND women - unless they're exceptionally attractive and somewhat young looking for their age. I'd like to think that I'm not shallow, but it takes longer to develop the like/respect/attraction toward someone who is an average looking middle aged person. Because you can't fall back on simple lust based on appearance, you have to actually (gasp!) get to know them. And as someone who also uses a vanilla dating site, I'll also say that a lot of middle aged guys aren't doing themselves any favors with the pictures that they post. I think most women put in an effort to make themselves as attractive as possible with makeup, lighting, angles.   
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Thank god I'm 54 then.  Thoughts from the Garden...
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if you live a healthy life , you will not look like a saggy baggy old suitcase of turnoff .thatsaid most americans live faaar from healthy .they are mostly, sick, tired, aged in mind and body ,lack energy , lack drive , are boring , predictable and slow. it is inevitable with 50 yrs of malnutrition toxicity, lack of exercise and poor sleep . i am trying to be hotter at 55 than i was at 35 , i think i am doing pretty well so far .
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Sounds like that fella you were talking to was feeling sorry for himself or fishing for a "you're still attractive" type compliment. Woodrow J. Evers
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BiggLala replies on 3/11/2018 7:21 pm: Define success In the case of the guy you mentioned it would be an older guy meeting women here. Overall, each person has to define what success here is to them. You know I try to avoid blanket generalizations I wasn't referring to anything you said. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Once someone starts talking in generalities - it brands them as an idiot. 1 guy was telling another he was "undesirable"? Were either of them gay, or bi? And what would possess this guy to speak on behalf of women. Yeah, he's an idiot. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Since I haven't seen or met the man in question, I can't really form an opinion on his desirability. But I have met many men 55+ who are extremely attractive, sexy as hell, and entirely fuckable. He's NOT speaking for me. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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That just leaves more women for me. But I don't need anymore. What am I to do? Cloning humans hasn't been perfected yet, or has it and they didn't tell me?  Why am I on here for then? The same reason that most other women in blogland aka dramaville are here for. To blog    
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BiggLala replies on 3/11/2018 9:27 pm: Why do you always insist on bringing logic to discussions? Ugh, must you??? I mean honestly!  Logic is usually closer to reality than some people think. So yes I must  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Fuck that shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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care to revisit that when you pass 55? I may have to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of Sidennafil Citrate), but I'm not dead yet!...
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Care to revisit this topic when you pass 55? I may have to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of Sidennafil Citrate), BUT I'm NOT DEA
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3/11/2018 11:34 pm |
I have to agree with this it seems very much a guy in his 30's and forget any older than that and women think he needs to grew up and be a dad. Us post kids men are just not even worth thinking about. Of course I have never been desirable so . . Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Care to revisit this topic when you pass 55? I may need to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of Sildennafil Citrate), but I ain't dead, yet! The rule of thumb is no younger than half your age plus 7 years. I'll be turning 70 this summer, and my current significant other will hit 42, about 6 weeks later....
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care to revisit this issue when you pass 55? I may need to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of blue pills), but I ain't dead, yet! The rule of thumb is that she needs to be at least half your age plus 7 years. I'll be turning 70 in August, and my current significant other will be 42 in September....
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Ah well, that's me fucked then........ People dinnae half talk a lot of generalistic shite at times eh??
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Well crap. Maybe that explains why I can't seem to find a man that's 55...or older. Up to about 68. I'm not interested in the younger guys and certainly not under 50. I'm not sure why he thinks there's a threshold there. Everyone has their individual preferences and 55 is actually a bit young for me. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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I am vinegar!!! But on a different note, that black garment you are wearing only add to the desirability. You know, we all spend so much time wondering who desres us and who doesn't . Most of the time wemiss the one thats looking for us and always chase the ones that don't. We are feeling useless, wait. I make dinner for my 19 yr old son, so I have a purpose!!!!! [I]Da Focker!!
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OHHHH NOOOOOO!!! I expire in 5 days 
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All about where you fall into the age range. I personally prefer someone within about a 10 year age range of myself. After that I feel you don't have a lot in common other than sex.....of course if that is the ONLY thing you are interested in, then whatever trips your trigger. Classy, Sassy, and a little Smart-Assy Sine Metu CN
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Some people get more desirable as they age and others don't. To me it seems it is much more a function of personality than of the body. I find women over 50 more desirable than the younger ones. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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i'm 68 and i still have sex and i don't have sex with men who aren't over 50 because they really don't want to have sex with a women who is 68 unless they 're nutz. so, men over 50, we are out there, and we're honry You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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Interesting blog... and some great responses... I agree that age is just a number and age gaps, like thigh gaps, are just a personal preference... Just depends on what you're looking for... I enjoyed reading...
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