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Posted:Oct 11, 2017 2:26 pm
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2017 9:39 am
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This is applicable to local men and out of town visitors; I cannot emphasize this enough. I’m not a or an escort. I’m a person who likes sex in a FWB kind of situation. This means I want someone who in interest in chatting with me and getting to know each other. Finding what kind of sexual relationship we want and if we’re on the same page regarding what we’re looking for here. Finding out if our sexual proclivities and kinks are on the same page or not.
When you write me with openers like-Visitors- I’m at in town at a hotel in Times Square. Want to come over and we’ll get dinner or drinks. Then head back to my room where I will fuck you hard. Or. Locals- Hey sexy. Want to come over. I want to lick your pussy and tear up with your pussy with my big cock. Yeah. Really charming. Where did you learn your manners from? Guess etiquette is lost on you. Seriously, I don’t know where in my profile, (did you even read?) did it says I’m a or an looking for a quick fuck. My answer is if you’re looking for either you should pay for one. Ugh!!   If you don’t care to know me. Why would I trust you with my pussy?
To these men, I just want to inform you. Just because I like sex doesn’t mean I’m desperate to shag anyone and everyone who asks me here. I know we still live in a patriarchal society but times have moved away from archaic perception where women can’t enjoy sex just as much as men. Or that we need to ensure your satisfaction to the exclusion of our own. That I need to tolerate men who write to like I’m a or escort. Just stop and if I call you out on this. No need to get upset and come back with some nasty retort. Really!!! 
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Availability of meets
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Posted:Oct 10, 2017 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2017 1:25 pm
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I think one of my biggest peeves about finding a fun hot playmates is the availability to meet. I’ve met a couple of really fun sexy playmates for me but chasing guys down for play dates is not my thing. Especially when hot n’ horny and ready to go. I’m sure it makes it come across like I’m a clingy demanding gf when in reality I’m just desperate for a shag to stomp out my overactive libido. I think it’s really unfair to have guys be busy when I need a good sex session but guys are busy and unavailable but then have these guys expect me to be available when they are back from business trips or some other obligation. I’m talking about promises after promises of meetings for weeks that turn into months. I will just stop chasing no matter how much fun we had. When it’s like this, I would prefer to have some filler play dates with regular visitors over guys with very busy work schedules. At least it’s proven to be more reliable and these guys let me know in advance when they are coming and if I’m free to meet.
Before all you out of towners start sending me messages telling me you’re coming to town and want me to meet. I’m not a . This is almost as bad as guys who come to town and are sitting in their hotels lonely and bored. They come across my profile and send me a message saying they are in a hotel and want to know if I want to come over. These guys need to know if you want a escort, pay for one. I’m not onl last-minute-fuck the last time I check. This might be a sex site but show some respect. There’s a reason FRIEND is part of the site name. I won’t meet anyone I haven’t chatted with for a bit. I won’t have sex with anyone I don’t meet for a drink date first to find out if we are really sexually attracted to each other. I’m pretty clear I want a friend with benefits. Not just a fuck buddy.
This search for a FWB is really difficult sometimes but I’m making good strides the longer I’m here. I am getting better prospect and have met some really nice guys along the way.
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Pussy grinding and oral
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Posted:Oct 9, 2017 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2017 11:53 am
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I was chatting with a guy today and I had an epiphany about how to tell when I’m getting my pussy eaten properly or not. When I’m getting a good licking, I usually lay there and let the guy do his magic. I squirm around a bit. I moan and play with my tits. If it’s really good I like to suck and bite my fingers. However when I’m getting mediocre oral. I will starting lifting my hips to grind because it’s close but I need to help to get it just right. Then there is the bad oral where I have to hold the guys head so I can grind to get my satisfaction.
The other thing I realize today is that when it comes to getting good oral and having some bad lip service. It’s made me a bit of an asshole to guys who promise me the moon and stars. I’ve told guys not to oversell or overpromise as it tends to lead to disappointments. Today someone told me I was being difficult. I don’t mean to be but yes o can see where a guy might think I’m an ass about it. Look I’m sure there are guys who think they are good at it. But I’m been mislead to build up high expectations then when it’s not delivered. It’s a crashing low. All I’m asking is that you not try to oversell me and if it not as good I won’t think it’s really bad because the bar is high. Just let me know you like it and are good. Not expound on why and all the extras. I don’t know why it seems to me like when you do inevitably I set the bar high. When you don’t meet my expectations because you’re having an off day or our chemistry isn’t right. I would be less disappointed. That’s all I’m saying. Not trying to be an asshole.
Also if you’re going to profess you’re really good at it. Please spend as much time on my pussy as you like you’re dick to be sucked and double that time. I say this because every time a guy tells me he LOVES eating pusssy I get 10 minute of it and that’s it. Meanwhile I’m wil suck you for half an hour and you think it’s 10 minutes and want double time of that. Honey if I had a $1000 for every guy who say he’ll go down on me for hours and hours. I would take the year off of travel in style. Just saying. I don’t profess to be good at it but I think I’m as good as my partner makes me by giving me a little bit of that sum’in sum’in. If I suck at it then we just don’t have good sexual chemistry. It happens. Not the end of for me if it isn’t for you.
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Favorite videos posted on site
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Posted:Oct 7, 2017 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2017 2:17 pm
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These are some of the hottest videos I like from members. Not necessarily on Oder but I will tell you why I like each one.
jackfromnewyork -M’s trip to Cleveland. It is the hottest fucking I’ve seen in a long while. I love the dirty talk but what kills it for me is the body slapping. Such a hot sound when two people of fucking. The fact that it’s doggy fucking makes it extra hot for me.
nak3dcouplenyc- the oral video is pretty good. It loses points with me because the guy slaps her in the face to start. But her deep throat skills is really good. Inspiring me to up my game.
noregrets4484- the woman is hot and in red fuckme heels. The guy has a thick cock. But what killed it for me is she thought she was going to ride him but his jackhammered her pussy as she is squatting on his cock. That was so fucking hot.
houndstooth has one of the sexiest videos I’ve seen. He has a black woman bent over the bed. She’s fucking him with her pussy more that he is fucking her. I love how uninhabited she is. When I talk to about my voyeur fantasy of watching a couple have anal. This is what I imagine it to be.
Mike103181- the tittyfucking video was short but the cumming on the tits is hot.
more to come
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Dominant and submissive relationships
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Posted:Oct 7, 2017 5:33 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2017 6:37 pm
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This is one type of sexual relationship I will never entire. It goes against everything I believe about pleasure and free will to enjoy it. For those who think I don’t know what I’m talking about I will say this. I was with someone who wanted to enter into such a relationship. The sex was not hot. It’s the main reason I don’t allow pain of any sort in sex. I hate the gag. I hated the corsewear. I hate the remote vibrator. Above all else I hate being tied and paddled. Let’s just say that kind of relationship has left scars. I’m a fully functional woman and it was extremely humiliating to be paddled as punishment. Or restrain because I want to give myself pleasure.
A lot of dominant/submissive relationships lends itself to BDSM and sex club scene. I know my ex and a lot of men who are into dominant/submissive relationships think because I am sexually uninhabited with my sex partners that I’m very sexually free all around. It’s the antiquated idea of the and nun syndrome. That if a woman who enjoys sex is a . If she doesn’t then she’s frigid like a nun. I’m so not a fan of this. A man generally doesn’t go around advertising he’s sticking his cock in every. If he does, women don’t want his cock in her. I think men are the same. They don’t want an actual . Just a women who is comfortable with sex and open to trying new things. At least that’s what I’m told by most men I speak to here. I am a hypochondriac so the idea of sex clubs is gross to me. I don’t trust people who are into that scene.
I don’t understand why dominates need to control a women in her pleasure. Allowing her to do thing or not. I’m pretty well versed in my body and how to derive pleasure from sex with my body. I know what my partners need to do for me to cum. I like to engage in dialog about what pleases my partners. I don’t tell my partners they can’t do this or that if the get pleasure from it. It seems extremely selfish to control someone’s pleasure when you’re having sex. On top of it, the painful paddling as punishment and the humiliation is what sex is not about. I think those are threats bullies taunt when they want to demean you.
In conclusion, men stop it with telling me you’re a bull and like to be dominant. That somehow I would get off of a heavy hand. I call bullshit on all this.
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Shower sex
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Posted:Aug 29, 2017 8:20 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2018 6:24 pm
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There is something very sexy about shower sex, especially if the hotel has a nice bathroom. So far, I have not had anyone who has offered to have shower sex. Would be something fun to do again.
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Very tall guy kink
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Posted:Aug 29, 2017 7:53 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2017 12:00 am
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I'm not short or a boney thing so finding a guy to do come of sexy time stuff I like isn't an easy thing. There's only a couple of guys who have been able to do a lifted fuck or fuck up against the wall. I don't think anyone has been big, strong and adventurous enough to try some more acrobatic stuff. The search resumes.
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Cocks- myths, expectations and realities.
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Posted:Aug 26, 2017 4:49 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2017 6:02 pm
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This is just base in my experiences and what I see on cam. Yours might be different. Base on what I've sampled.
• Latino guys are too big for me if my one and only play date is the norm. I have to say that I do like Latinos but I'm not the right amount of curvy. Balls are almost as big as the cock. Cam cocks are pretty big like my play date's.
• Black guys aren't as big as I've been led to believe but I've only dated one guy. While he was big- he didn't know how to fuck. Fairly big balls. Cam cocks while big aren't the monster cocks as myths projected.
• European guys and I seem to have the most sexual chemistry. In terms of size and sexual proclivities/kinks- I have to say I've dated and play with Italian, Dutch, German, French, Swiss and Austrian guys. I have to say for the most part the cocks are thick and long without being monster size. Most cocks are uncut. Not big balls. Overall the most visually pleasing for me. Cam cocks are just as nice as big as the ones I've had.
• I've dated a Brit in and off for a couple of years. The cock is just like Europeans but cut. Bigger balls. Some of the cocks I've seen on cam are pretty big.
• I've played with American Caucasian guys the most. What can I say. In terms of ease for a last minute quickie. It's a guarantee. I'm a fetish. I have to say that the myth of how big American Caucasian guys are have been grossly exaggerated. There is more girth than length as a given. Length is average with some thickness. American Caucasian guys are very aggressive about sticking their cocks into my ass even when I say that's a hard o for me. All circumsized. Neither big or small ball- just average
• Asian guys have always had a reputation of havinng all small cocks. Can't voucher for all but it isn't true. Mostly the cocks are on the slimmer size but on average it's 6-7" from my experience. All uncut with giant saggy balls. Back when I only had sex with Asian guys- manscaping wasn't a thing so there was always a hairless bush and a mouthful of pubes when giving oral.
• Lastly- my least favorite type of cock I've sampled belongs to very very white guys. These guys pro white nationalists/ supremacists. They come with very corporate American jobs and mostly been married in sexless marriages. I had met one last summer unfortunately. Not a grower and definitely not a shower. Very short with average thickness. His balls were way bigger than his cock. As for the cam guys with micro penises- most of the guys have bellies that exceed a pregnant woman. Sometimes the rolls cover the cock and all you see is a set of big balls.
I do have a preference in cocks. If I have to choose between girth and length, I pick girth. Don't get me wrong, I do like length too. I'm just saying IF I had to choose. Most guys have cocks that fall in the 6-61 /2" mark. I do like more length that that. Personally anything over 9" does become too big and painful for me to take in since that mean girth is also too wide. If I can't get balls deep when I'm fucking then I can't do hard deep fast fucking. For sure deep throat with a monster cock isn't possible. It becomes painful to give oral the way I like. There's nothing I dislike more than gagging when I'm deep throating a cock when giving oral.
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Morning sex
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Posted:Aug 19, 2017 9:53 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2017 10:12 pm
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There is nothing as pleasurable as walking up to a guy eating and fingering my pussy. Just like a guy gets morning wood. I get morning dew, especially if I had a great night of sex the night before. This is second only to middle of the night sex. What can I say; I like it when I'm perfectly sated and sleepy from long bouts of sex. My pussy is tender but still wet. It takes very little for my sensitive clit to enjoy some licking, soft fingering and slow deep thrusts of a hard cock going in and out of my pussy. Every nerve in and around my pussy is heightened. My body is primed for soft caresses. I love my tits tweaked and sucked because they are so sensitive and my nipples hard. It's been a little while since I had some really good morning sex. I need to find someone who enjoys morning sex as much as I do. Sleepovers, anyone?
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Bodystocking sex
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Posted:Aug 16, 2017 7:41 pm
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2017 10:27 pm
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Ever since a friend told me he had the hottest sex with someone who was wearing a bodystocking he ripped off before he fucked her. I've been thinking about trying it to see if it's as hot as he said it was for him. Now I just need to find someone whom I'm interested in to partner up with in this endeavor
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Role play- Boss/Secretary
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Posted:Aug 16, 2017 6:42 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 7:14 am
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This would be a fun office sex thing to do.
I would come by after everyone leaves to prep for an early morning meeting tomorrow. You're working late in your office. When I'm done, I stop by your office to ask if you need anything. You ask me to come in and have a drink with you. We sat in your office drinking chatting when things turn sultry...
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Foreplay
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Posted:Aug 16, 2017 6:08 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2017 6:30 pm
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I'm going back to basics of getting a lot of foreplay buildup.
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