So I've been out of the Country for 12 years and so much has changed that acclimating has been difficult. I am not naive and know that the majority if not all members are seeking out partners to fulfill their needs whether romantically and/or sexually but in my case I'm happily married with 3 fantastic .
Unfortunately my best friend (wife) is stuck back overseas with my until immigration can get their shit straight and so I've hit up restaurants, bars, group activities, and more but people out here have their cliques and unlike 12 years ago are not as keen to people coming up and introducing themselves.
I would like to make friends out here in Portland to just have fun and relearn a city I seem to have forgotten. There are so few sites dedicated to this (meetup seems so limited) and so what the hell, I'll give it a month and see.