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Posted:Mar 2, 2008 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2008 2:51 pm
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*I LOVE to play Poker...
*Okay I was playing a Joke on YOU with the Title of this BLOG...: {SPANK ME!!!}
*I went to a low key Baby Shower where the Dad had his male friends come and hang out while their wives, or girlfriends enjoyed the party.
*The Ladies all played games, laughed, gossiped and shared Baby stories.
*The Guys hung out in the back Family room playing Poker.
*I wondered back their way as I LOVE to play Poker.
*However, I do believe that some Men have an attitude that Women are incapable of playing cards.
*What is it with some of these Men still LIVING in the DARK-AGES.
*There are some Women out there that have half a brain and can do things for themselves.
*Including driving 4x4 Trucks, Ride Motorcycles, Play a Mean hand of cards, Beat Your ASS at Darts, Out Fish & Camp You, & Shoot a Gun, Etc.
*Are Men just affraid that a Woman might just WIN THEIR MONEY.
*Well I didn't join in at playing Poker, but, I would have like to had a chance to BEAT THEIR ASS !!!
*I Do believe it is time for a Las Vegas Run!
Lil Red Riddin Hood
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ON MY OWN !!!
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Posted:Feb 29, 2008 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2008 4:33 pm
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FREE TO BE ME
*I have decided NOT to take my family member up on her offer. *She is very over baring to me and it effects the stress level I have in my relationship with my lil' angel.
*I want to continue to share my quality time with my lil' girl for a few more years before she becomes to old to want to spend time with me.
*I will continue to talk on the phone to my family member, but I will Not argue about my decision. *I learned a long time ago to depend on my self and NO one else.
*This seems to bother some Men as they like to be needed to fix problems and take care of the Woman they are with.
*So Men seem to pick very needy Women with a lot of problems. *They might NOT be able to help them with. Why is that??? *Why can't Men understand they DON'T always have to take care of a Woman and rescue her.
*Can't giving LOVE just be enough???
**The same goes for Women, WHY??? does a Woman feel the need to be in a relationship with a Man that needs to be FIXED???
***Does she NOT see HE can ONLY save himself???
*Behavioral Attitudes can NOT be changed over night.
***Does a Man Not see a Woman can ONLY change things in HER life for HERSELF.
*Someone else doing these things for "YOU", doesn't change the behaviors that led to the way these things got out of hand.
*Paying bills for a Woman or Man, only clears them up for NOW.
*Soon a NEW set of bills will have to be paid.
*Behavioral spending habits will continue on.
**So, if "YOU" choose to be in this type of relationship of FIXING "YOUR" Mates Problems.
**STOP Bitching about them after "YOU" break up with them.
**After all "YOU" are an ADULT that chose the one "YOU" were with.
***I believe if "YOU" choose to be in a relationship, "YOU" must like the person just the way they are.
**NOT try to change them.
Including trying to take away their STRONG, INDEPENDENT SPIRIT.
Love,
Lil Red Riddin Hood
PS I hope to find a loving Man who likes me "JUST THE WAY I AM"
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Still no final decision
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Posted:Feb 25, 2008 4:33 am
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2008 6:09 am
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*I still have made NO final decision about what I should with do the offer that was made in my previous post.
*Instead I have chosen to approach it slowly. I think the party needs to get to know my Lil' Beautiful Angel.
*Part of the reason for putting her in a boarding school was so she didn't have to travel while trying to go to school.
*Plus the Requesting party is older and possibly a little intolerant to . As she was somewhat that way already when I was a .
*I would also want to keep My Lil' Sweetheart safe as possible From harm that this party could uncaring-ly verbally speak.
*I am immune to this party's ways. Because, I have dealt with her all my life. I have learned how NOT to take things she says to heart and let them roll off my back. *It's just been better to let her say whatever and not fight, or express my opinion. *It just takes way to much of my personal positive energy trying to get this person to see that someone else may have a different view. * I ask myself??? If I can juggle both being a parent to my parent and my ? *Maybe a Private Tudor and keeping them separated 90% the time.
*This situation would be really hard on me and will probably make me turn old before I'm ready to be. *If the stress alone doesn't kill me.
* [blog suxnfux4u] brought up a good point about having an agreement in writing before taking on this situation.
*I already told her I want a large deposit in my account before I would ever think about giving up my life for anyone. *This was Not said out of GREED. But, to have her realize what she was asking of me.
*At this point in my life, I don't plan on getting married and giving my life away to someone else.
* But, If he is will to deposit a large sum in to my account then I might just think about it. LOL... *Posting a high price on marring me keeps MEN from asking me to marrying them. LOL... *That's how much I hate marriage and want to own my own life.
*However I am willing to share my time with whomever I choose as long as they respect me.
* I have NOT chosen to SHARE MY TIME with my parent for the last 12 years.
*So, now she wants to spend time with me. *Because of a lack of respect and a need to control my life. I have chosen to stay away from most of my family members.
*Maybe if I had, had Loving Caring Parents I might feel different about things. They where both self involved individuals that didn't have time for .
*God, gave me Strong Loving Caring Grandparents that raised me and I'm thankful for that. *As I would NOT be the person I am today. Lil Red Riddin Hood
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What would you do if...???
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Posted:Feb 17, 2008 3:24 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2008 7:20 pm
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**What would you do if...???
*You were a very proud person(stubborn ), who has always taken care of yourself financially since you were of a young age.
*NOT asking your family for any money, or help of any kind.
*Managing your life without the influence of those in your family that want to control your life and every move.
**If a parent came to "You" and offered a large amount of money($$$$$$$$) to give up a few years of your life to spend it with them for the last few years of theirs.
*You would have to Travel, Shop, Etc. ... But, you could have NO life of your own.
**But being at their beck and call, never being able to express your opinions.
*I did express the need to work at a business part-time to have some get away time.
*But, then the idea of buying a little business together was the solution of the party involved. Still controlling my actions and being accountable to them. To me this is Not get a break. But does provide a future opportunity.
*I have had this type of offer when I was younger. Many years before, I was married several years before my Grandfather died.
*I passed on it and my Aunt came in and took over and inherited everything. She had been an out cast in the family before. No one had spoken to her in 20 years.
*I have never been a greedy person and pass on being friends with others who act that way.
*I currently have a 9 year girl at home. She receives NO support. I want to see her go to College and have a good life.
*This Life Style Change would include her to a point. But sending her off to a private boarding school has been brought up. She has never been away from me. She would be home for Holidays and Summer. I have Not given my answer yet, as this would change the course our life forever.
*Great thought needs to be given to these issues.
If "You" were I what would you do?
Tell me Why???
Seriously Confused
Lil Red Riddin Hood
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How do YOU mend a broken heart?
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Posted:Feb 5, 2008 10:12 pm
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2008 6:31 pm
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I have had my Heart broken a few times in my life.
Disappoint by bad behavior, and selfishness.
When I'm in a relationship I give more then 100% to try to make things Loving for everyone involved.
I have been "Burnt Out" for the last Year-and-a-Half.
Not, really willing to go the extra mile to meet that Someone Special.
So how did "You" mend "Your" broken Heart?
An if "You" had a chance to mend my Heart, and show me there still are Great Guys out there what would "You" do?
Lil Red Riddin Hood
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THANK YOU FOR THE BLING
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Posted:Jan 17, 2008 11:21 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2008 11:35 am
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I want to Thank bitoni2006 for making this Beautiful Bling for me. Just in Time for Valentines Day.
I Wish You All Great Love in Your Life!
Lil Red Riddin Hood
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THIS MAY BE IT !!!
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Posted:Jan 16, 2008 9:38 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2008 11:55 pm
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UNDATE MY BLOG WAS DELETED THEN FIXED
Well I tried one more time to work on writing on my profile. Once again they deleted it. So what is the point in writing one. I NOT getting the Bling I want, seems only the Gold members are getting whatever they want. I have the points, but the system won't even let me buy them either. Is It Because I'm NOT a Gold member? I have seen other Gold members with the Bling I want. My Blog Posts have been censored lately. An some Wonder WHY? I'm not writing, or hangout chatting? Bling, or getting involved in my group. Well they have even taken the enjoyment out of that. Even my e-mail is not getting to me. So if you have written to me and I haven't answered. Well there ya go I have to see it to read it. I do still get to read your Blogs, and do enjoy them. So... I wrote a short note, that might not be well taken.
If I'm not around anymore Thanks to All. Nice to Read your Blogs and Good Luck.
Lil Red Riddin Hood
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Time for a Bug Break ???
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Posted:Jan 10, 2008 1:21 am
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2008 7:40 pm
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Time for A Bug Break ???
Well I am getting really tired of this Site and it's Bugs.
The Bugs are NOT ONLY eating away at all the programs and the things we try to build here on this Site.
But it is now eating away at many Loyal Members Spirits.
Some members are starting to take breaks from this Site for awhile out of frustration.
That means they will not be Writing, Making Bling, Chatting, Looking for Dates, Recruiting Other to Join this Site.
They will be Surf the Web looking for a different interesting things.
Maybe they may decide NOT to come back.
What will it take for this Site to GET OFF their back side and hire more qualified programmers?
As for me I am starting school soon and will be busy.
So I will try writing when I feel I can.
Best Wishes to All
Lil Red Riddin Hood
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