I'm kind of laid back and shy at first, till I'm comfortable with someone then you would never know I was shy. I'm looking for a friend first then the benefits. Seems a lot of people wants a fwb but forget about the friend part. That's not a fwb that just a common hook up/booty call. I don't like feeling used like that so there will be no benefit without the friend part for me. Kind of tired of that. Also if I do get comfortable enough to agree to meet you, don't stand me up just simply say you don't want to meet. It just makes other guys look bad to me because I will expect all of them to be that way since it's happened so often lately. If you don't want to be friends first, then don't talk to me and get me to trust you. That being said, I'm not a bitch, I'm super nice, funny, kind of cool ok not cool just dorky but I embrace it and that's cool. No one sticks around long enough to see that side. So I'm actually going to stop making it easy for the guys. I think my niceness comes across as a weakness to pounce on, but it's not. I would like my fun and attention too. I'm not looking for a guy to buy me things, I make my own money for that. My guy friends think I'm kind of awesome because of that. I'm into a lot of things you wouldn't expect a girl to into. I love movies, music, book stores, hanging out with friends playing video games, and just relaxing on the couch with a good movie or watching the UFC.

I hope this doesn't come across as rude but I'm just tired of being treated like I have no feelings and could be used and dropped after believing lies. I guess I'm finally getting a backbone so to speak.

My Ideal Person: I like someone with a great sense of humor. Being a film and music geek is a plus. I like confident guys with a sweet romantic side to them. Someone who will accept my geekiness.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Afghan Whigs, Better than Ezra, Pearl Jam, Taking Back
Sunday, U2, and many more

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have always loved vampire movies, I would love to have
a vamp make me submit to him.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I would love to have Clive Owen and Jude Law, the accent is
a big turn on.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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