**Update**
I am only a free member so keep that in mind when you're trying to contact me. I do have Y! Mess and can be reached there.

I feel like I need to say this and I'm sorry if it offends anyone...BUT...I am NOT interested in married guys and am I only interested in caucasian men. Again, I apologize if this offends you.

I have been divorced for about 3 years and I'm ready to start seeing what's out there. I'm tired of all the crap...tired of guys telling me they want to meet only to turn around and realize they aren't being sincere. I'm looking for a long-term relationship...I'm not saying I'm looking for marriage, because I'm definitely NOT looking for that. I'm looking for a guy who is confident in himself enough to know. I'm not a super model nor do I expect you to be; however, I do expect you to know how to behave whether in a social environment, with family (mine or yours) or privately. I also take care of myself and would expect the same of you.

My Ideal Person: Like I said earlier, I'm looking for a man who is confident in himself but not egotistical or obnoxious. I want to be with a man who knows how to please me in bed by knowing when its time to throw all caution to the wind and get down and dirty or when its time to have slow passionate sex. Its also important to me that whoever I'm with is able to hold an intelligent conversation and to also be silly.

Laughing at yourself is sometimes the best medicine. I am an open book...I love people and getting to know them.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

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