I guess I need to now start this off by saying if you are married or attached, I will not meet with you. I am looking for FRIENDS. If you are not willing to be my friend, keep moving. If you are not willing to get to know me as a person, keep moving. If you are just in town for whatever reason, I am not going to meet you for a quick roll in the sack, so KEEP MOVING.

It would be in your best interest to attempt to read my blog. It is like my online diary, and if you want to get to know me, start there. I don’t hold back, there are times I act like an idiot, but it is me in my raw form. I am not perfect in any way, and there are times I have to laugh at myself.

My profile is real, my information is real, and the pictures are of me. I am a doctor, so if you do send me a note, please come correct and at least use the spell check feature. NSA is a thing of the past with me. I am looking for something steadier. It's time for me to grow up. I still love sex, but I don't want some mindless encounter.

I've reached the point where I've rediscovered my wild side, and even exploring things more kinky. I am free to do what I want, when I want - within reason, and with whom I want. However trust is a big issue with me. If you don’t give me reason to trust you, I don’t see the point in pursuing anything. I love good conversation, so don't think that I am going to jump into your bed (or car, or a park - really?) just because you tell me that I am hot, sexy, etc. I need my mind stimulated!!

It feels good to be with someone who has plans and goals in life - and if you haven't achieved your goals, how are you going to get there...yes, I will ask! The philosophy I live by is to always keep striving. I believe that goals are checkpoints, not finish lines.

On Sunday afternoons, I like to have brunch out somewhere then go to the beach. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say, and I expect the same in return. I miss living near the ocean, and if there is an excuse I can make to drive over, I am game. Evening strolls along the beach are always appreciated.

I am looking forward to whatever life brings. I'm not totally changing my life; I'm just trying to make it more interesting. I realize this is a sex site – but I am done with fucking for the sake of fucking…unless we venture to a swinger club! Oh, and I am not bi, don’t want to do anything with you and your girl, I don’t care if she is smoking hot and looks like Angelina Jolie…but if you showed up with Brad Pitt, I might make an exception to the no NSA rule I have a fetish for a good MFM, and the last thing on my sexual bucket list is a real DP!

WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.

My Ideal Person: A man who is comfortable with himself, and who wants to take control. Someone who is not afraid to meet in public, kiss and hold hands, and let his inner freak loose in the bedroom. A man who can make me wet with just his words...making my mind race in anticipation of what will happen when we get together. I need a real friend, and I won't accept anything less.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Diana Krall, Mary J Blige, Barbra Streisand, Janet Jackson,
Brian McKnight, Christina Aguilera

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Angelina and Brad...her lips, his body, lips and eyes.
She looks like she would turn anyone out. He has always been
my favorite guy, so when they got together, I had many dreams
about being in the middle of those two.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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