TIME FOR AN UPDATE!

One must wonder why I have those blings up there, these are words I live by. I've been here for a few month now, and I can honestly say that I am staying here because I've met some wonderful people I would call my friend (check my blog on my definition of friendship chanay1 My Blog).

ABOUT ME

I am a very strong-willed and proud person, but intensely private and not easy to know well. Behind my quiet exterior lies a great deal of emotional depth, sensitivity, complexity, and also fierce determination. When I want something I go after it
rather quietly but insistently and wholeheartedly - and I usually get it. I have a gentle heart impressionable, and receptive - I am a dreamer. I have a rich inner life though I may at time rather unobtrusive and quiet outwardly, I usually keep to myself.

ways you can catch my attention

Stop by my blog and say hi. It gives you good insight into how I think and what I hold dear. Plus it's fucking funny. Leaving a clever comment will get you noticed.

Send me an email. But make it a bit of an effort to stand out from everyone else. don't just say "hey baby I wanna chat" or some stupid comment like that Because frankly? You have a lot of competition who are articulate.

Refer to something I say in my profile or on my blog. This will lead me to believe you actually read it.

Flattery may get you somewhere, no promises.

Say something intellectual, funny... lead me to believe you have some kind of education.

and this one is a biggie - CHECK YOUR SPELLING

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
no. they are just like every other guy.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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