I'm a lovely Black, curvy, female who lives in AL. I have a wonderful voluptuous body. I am not what you would consider one who lives an alternative lifestyle but I have always had an open mind about things.

These are my basics. Some may appreciate them, some not. If not all I ask is that you are polite about it. I'm a statuesque woman who has a regal bearing (5’10"). Curves that Renoir and Michaelangelo would have admired (around 265 lb. and curvy. God gave me a memorable front to make up for short-changing me on my backside.). Chocolate hued skin that reminds you of the beaches of paradise. Eyes and hair the shade of God's greatest gift, earth (Brown). A mischievous smile that does make one wonder...what is she thinking?

Just wanted to add that if you'd like for me to know something about you, please attach your profile and picture to any notes.(Only a standard membership for an above average person - just kidding on the last part).

My Ideal Person: I am interested in people who count FRIENDSHIP first. There are all kinds of aspects that can go with friendship including a physical relationship. I like people who are humorous, can have a conversation, who understand that sex is not a rush thing and that it is not the whole of life. Friendship to me does NOT consist strictly of 'Hi. Lets go fuck.' 'What can you do to/for me. Etc.' Please have the ability to write a decent sentence and to at lease use spellchecker. I don't hold someone to a firm set of prerequisites usually but that is one that I can't overlook. My family has taught me to notice people and the exterior but not judge or make assumptions. That one thing has taught me well. I've experienced things that I would have missed if I stayed in a specific mindset. It does make one wonder of what those experiences consisted (grin).

One of the things I ask is that if you are looking for a "Black" experience or are married and looking for what you don't get at home from your wife - I AM NOT THE ONE FOR YOU.

Hmm...after being on here for a bit, I have made a few observations. Its a good thing for you to have all of your teeth (well maybe wit the exception of wisdom teeth). If you don't - SAY SO! Oral hygiene, hygiene in general, is a wonderful thing!!! That is not a pleasant surprise to meet someone and they are missing a few or they rival Pepe Le Pew. This is a new suggestion, my preference has been more for men who shave. I've encountered some wonderful men, but not at least trimming their body hair can pose a bit of a difficulty - for me. I have read numerous profiles that declare the writer wants people who are drama free. Real life involves drama. That is just how it is. Now the qualifier should be that others don't let the drama dictate their/others lives (if possible). Laughter is a crucial part of life - par take in it often. Laugh at life - laugh at yourself! Take a risk on someone different once in a while. You may discover a diamond in a field of coal. The only way to see it is to look!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Luther Vandross, Jill Scott, Darius Rucker, Adele, The
Corrs, Robin Thicke, Nora Jones,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Adrian Paul, Jimmy Smits, Shemar Moore - They all exude
sex appeal to me.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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