**Please read disclaimer before you read any further**

Thanks for at least checking out my profile, BUT....if you are MARRIED, ATTATCHED, SEPARATED, or otherwise a NON SINGLE MAN, stop right here.
If you have a train trunk of baggage, exs, scars, battlewounds, hates, dislikes, prejudices, preconceived notions, work issues, boundary issues, or anything that you might need to see a therapist for, please stop right here.
If you are a single man, but are BI, or are into men, or curious about men in any way, shape or form, please stop right here.
I am in NO WAY into any "LIFESTYLE" other than my own life that I live. If your looking for a "third" or someone to explore Pandoras scary-ass toy box, please stop right here.
If your looking for free porn, cam action, dirty pics or talk to jack-off to, keep moving, wont find that here. No, Im in no way a prude, icy, or stuck up....just not into giving away my goodies, time, or energy for free.

OK....now that Ive eliminated about 95% of then men on here, if youve gotten this far, you deserve a gold star, so please keep reading. Ive taken the time to actually think about writing a thought-out intelligent profile, of my needs, wants, desires and thoughts, the least you can do is read, then decide for yourself if you want to contact me, hopefully based on first an attraction to pictures I have posted, and second because I have a brain and substance, which probably makes me about .01% of women on this site like that.
So...please read on, if you dare.

So, we are all here for one specific reason or another. Maybe we are here for several reasons. Some that we share, and some that we dont share, but secretly wish we could have or find.
My reasons are this....
I have been on this site, for about 2 years now. On and Off. I have dated a few guys Ive met on here. Didnt work out, but I had a good time doing it. No scars here. Ive met some weirdos, hey, who hasnt.
But, what ive found is that at, almost 40, I need and want some substance to my "sex life".
By that, I mean, Im not on here looking for hook-ups, one-night stands, FWB, fuck-buddies, or any other monicour you want to attatch to it.
At this point in my life, I am open to find "something". What that "something" is, Im not exactly sure. No expectations, but no limitations.
If there was a textbook explaination, the best way I could put it, would be...to meet someone that I am physically attracted to, mentally attracted to, emotionally attracted to, and most importantly, someone who would be my best friend, lover and behind the scenes cheerleader.
Ok, Im reading your mind..."if she wants that, what the HELL is she doing on Passion.com??"
Well, truth is, I dont think Passion.com is any different than match, POF, or eharmony. Passion.com just puts the honest truth right out there for all to see. Its strips us down to what our real truths are, as to what we want to find. And, if your here for notches on your headboard, more power to ya! If your a pimp or ho in training, and loving it, GO FOR IT! If your here to put on ladies panties and wear a purple wig and dance the running man on cam for all the world to see, then do it and be the best at it you can be.
My point is, in the time ive been on here, ive met so many types of guys. All looking for differnet things.
And ulimatly sex rules the world! We all want it, need it, lust after it, crave it and hopefully we find our sexual match.
So, the long and short of it is, Im hoping to find someone to get to know, chat, email, text, talk on the phone, meet up with, and see what happens. Im in no hurry, and Im only looking for one. It takes time and effort to get to know someone, so if you cant or wont commit to the "getting to know you" stage, you and I wont work. And after all that, Im hopeful if it gets that far, it will turn into something good.
OK...so if youve read this far, I guess I should tell you more about ME....you know what I want and what I expect...so here is who I think I am.

So, what kind of woman excites you? Beauty? Brains? Long silky hair? Wit? Side-splitting humor? Successful? How about all those things?
Now, how about if that all comes in a BBW package? Do you know what a true BBW is? A Big Beautiful Woman. A woman who knows shes beautiful no matter her size of clothes, has confidence in who she is, and isnt afraid to live her life the way she wants too.
No, Im not a barbie doll. And no, I dont have a flat stomach, tight abs, where a size 4, or run half marathons on the weekends.
But what I do have, is a beautiful face, beautiful hair and smile. Smarts to rival any scholar, self depricating humor. Peaches and cream skin. Virtually no wrinkes at almost 40. Impecable hygiene and self love. I have taste and style like a billionaire. I can also get down and dirty and work in the dirt and yard. I work very hard at a job I love, and that Im successful at. Ive paid my own way for 20 years. I have my own home, drive a nice car, traveled around the world several times, and thats just the tip of the iceberg.
So, granted I know most men will pass because Im a big girl, and thats your choice. But trust me, your the one missing out, not me.

So....if youve read all this, and still want to contact me, please do. Im a standard at this time, and probably will remain so. Maybe Ill re-join at some point.
If you do email me, I will try my best to respond to all emails, even if its a thanks, but no thanks.
I look forward to the new year, and seeing what might happen.
I wish all of you good luck, and no matter what you might be looking for, I hope you find it.
***And please, if you have a comment, other than positive, please keep it to yourself. It will just get deleted, so its a waste of time and finger power as your typing it.***
Thanks

My Ideal Person: A nice guy, decent looking, good sense of humor.Someone laid back, and easy going. Someone who respects themselves and others, likes to laugh and have a good time, and is happy whereever they are...oh yeah, and a big cock doesnt hurt!HAHAHAHA....ah YEAH, I said it! And it aint no lie!! LOL

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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