I have been divorced over 2 years. Looking to have a little discreet fun with a clean and healthy man over the age of 42 with a long term relationship in mind. I am not a "player" nor am I looking for that type. Just an ordinary man who likes the soft touch of a woman, one on one. I have a little "junk in the front" but otherwise I am in good health. I am attracted to men taller than myself so over 5'10" tall please. Unfortunately I have found that men like to say they are tall but turn out to be much shorter than myself!

I am not interested in married men. Hate to be like that but I would not do that to another woman as I know how that feels. I don't understand why so many men and women are on here looking outside of their marriage for great sex. If you aren't happy at home then LEAVE the marriage! Simple solution.

I would like someone who will become important to me both in and out of the bedroom. I know this may not be the site for that criteria but anything is possible! I really don't think there is such a thing as "NSA" fun. All relationships, no matter how short, have certain "ties" that bind us in some way. I am wanting a man who loves being adored by a woman and loves completely satisfying her as well. Looking for someone who will enjoy all aspects of love making and who knows.....maybe something will come from it! At the very least, we will become friends. I have to have a photo of you, prefer a facial one! Let me know if you are game! You might be able to catch me in the IM Chat Room. I enjoy talking with people when I have the chance!

I like to be spontaneous and have been known to run with scissors. I may be blonde, but I can chew gum and walk at the same time. Gosh, I can even tell a good joke AND understand it!

BTW, I am not willing to be someones secret. If you can not be seen with me outside of the bedroom then I am not interested in seeing you IN the bedroom.

My Ideal Person: My ideal man would be someone who is looking for a long term relationship. Understanding that sex is a major part in all relationships, we would explore those aspects before deciding if we were wanting to take it to the next level.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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