I've been on this 'sex' site for a long time. I've met many of you, and chatted with even more. I can't tell you how many times that I've been chastised for rejecting the grand gesture of 'simple sex with no strings'. For men sex may be simple but I'm looking for the man that realizes that it's different for 'most' women. (and that all women aren't the same) I'm NOT looking for a boyfriend or a husband but there has to be a happy medium. I hope to find a friend that I will CARE about and RESPECT...and vice versa. I'm straight, (NOT into women at all) but open-minded, so if you like nice curvy, full figured women, maybe you'd like to get acquainted. Yes, I said get 'acquainted'. That means we talk, share thoughts, ideas and activities aside from the obvious. It's really a very simple philosophy. Stimulate my mind and take the time to get to know me and you may be rewarded for your efforts

My Ideal Person: I'm completely comfortable with being single, but I would ideally like to find an exclusive friend with benefits... Honesty, sincerity and SOME emotional closeness is VERY important. I'm not interested in an unfeeling mechanical get together. I'm 5'6ish and 250 lbs so if a hard body hidden under a thick layer of insulation turns you off then I'm not the girl for you. I really like a thick hairy chest, but aside from that, attraction and chemistry can't be dictated. It's either there or it isn't. Sometimes one nighters are inevitable...but my goal is something a little more regular...maybe even dinner or a game of pool thrown in once in a while. You know, a date... then a kiss...then dessert..

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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