Hi Friends. I'm a standard member right now, so please include some detail or information if you contact me. Thanks so much.

Hello, and welcome to my profile. I'm glad you decided to stop by and visit. We may get along famously, but then again, maybe not. In any event, no harm done! Sometimes people read this and find me cynical or quick to judge. Rather, I'm just trying to be honest.

Oh. Let me say for the first time NO DRAMA....include some sort of picture or your profile will get lost in the sea of faceless people.
There are a lot of men vying for your attention. It amazes me how rude some people get when you say "no thank you." they blow a gasket at you. Remember guys, there are some real people on the site. A little kindness and respect can go a long well.

I have been on Passion.com for quite a while, and date some, but I also enjoy cyber or chat and blogging. I've been burned a few times here, so perhaps that makes me cynical. IF not cynical, then cautious. If I meet you it is not happening after one email exchange, or a couple of minutes on chat.

Want to get my attention? well have a picture, fill out your profile, and WRITE YOUR OWN MATERIAL.

Remember fellas, its a different world for you than for women on Passion.com, so you have a lot more competition, and a one line or canned profile isn't going to do much but make me yawn. Manners are helpful as well. If we've never even exchanged an email, and you start yammering in some self gratifying language about what you are gonna DO to me, then I'll just hit delete real fast!

NUTSHELL: Single, Never Married, No Kidlets, BBW, Rubenesque, Big Girl, Professional, Well Educated
Some curiosity about BI , but mostly interested in SINGLE MALES. I am NOT looking for one night stands. I like to make friends that will come back and see me again.

And now for the rest of the story!

Good morning, noon or night! I am a 40 something woman with a zest for life. I work too hard and too many hours, and am not good about giving myself the freedom to play that I'd like. I hope to develop that more here on Passion.com.

I enjoy the arts, all types of music, cooking, reading, volleyball, biking, walking. Sorry but I don't understand NAASCAR, and watch an occasional football game but am not a die hard fan.

My Ideal Person: Ah, if I knew this, I might not be on Passion.com. I am interested in someone with a good sense of humor, who is articulate, and has lived a little bit of life. As I mature, I find my interests are too. While my tastes in physical appearance are broad, I used to go for the by the dark haired, bad boy look, but find that sexy grey and beautiful bald can be hot too. I also enjoy mustaches and goatees. Chocolate is attractive as well.

Those are just a couple of physical features that catch my attention immediately, but a quick wit and a little bit of respect go a long way.

SO I've found myself attracted to blonds, brunettes, redheads, and people of multiple ethnic backgrounds. I do look at things like education, and marital status. But just as you may not find BBW attractive, I may not be into somebody, and it is all personal preference. Passion.com is not like ordering off the drive through at McDonalds . (heh heh but if you want to supersize it, welll....) just kidding

When I get a letter from someone that sounds like cro-magnon man "Me fuck you good, right now UGHHHH" I tend to hit delete or do an automatic no thanks. I guess it amazes me that every guy on this site is 'athletic' and hung like an elephant.

Just tell the truth about who you are... that is much more attractive to me.

IF we are not a match, I wish you well, and good luck!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Allmans, john hiatt, somecountry, Martina , Indigo Girls, Bon
Jovi, Aerosmith, classical

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Lol My sex life lately has been much more fantasy than reality!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
hmm... male or female?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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