I am on I love and appreciate all of you who were there for me through my cancer journey and beyond! (That includes one who blocked me probably forever!) Thank you for caring and being there for me! (((HUGS))) PLEASE READ MY BLOGS TO UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON IN MY LIFE! Life changes, and so my purpose here has changed as well. I want to Thank all my friends here for their utmost love and support during my cancer treatment. I am NOW cancer free. The journey, however, never ends...cancer loves to lurk...like a thief...so hang on, keep praying, lighting candles and sending good karma! I'm here to flirt, blog and make friends. I'm NOT looking for a relationship, I'm looking for friends and if that leads to other activities, then so be it...Hugs and kisses! And Blessed BE!!**charmed~~**


I'm fun, adventurous, and love to be sultry and sexy....I am secure in who I am and what I want, I'm comfortable in my skin!! (Even with surgical scars from cancer surgery) I'm friendly and honest, I like people who are honest too. I AM VERY REAL. I can be stubborn and hold true to my convictions and beliefs, but I'm also very understanding of others rights to believe in what they believe in. And I respect that right! I'm NOTlooking for sex, ...would just like to have male/female friends to hang out with...go to a movie, go out dancing,go for a walk, or just open up and chat ....and if the chemistry is right maybe more,...Don't play games nor do I want games from my friends and defiantly NO drama... I love romance and that "take my breath away..." feeling. It's that "can't eat, can't sleep,reach for the stars, over the fence, home-run hitting kinda thing!! Make your head spin kinda feelin!!
I LOVE to ballroom dance, actually any kind of dance! I would love to share the joy of dancing with you, and once you try it, you'll like it!!! And dirty dancing is fun too!!! But you don't have to dance to be my friend.... I'd just like to have someone to talk to, who will listen without judgment, and I can be there for them too!! Or just watch a movie or go for a walk.....or just have fun....you just never know, you might meet someone that you want to get to see over and over, and its because you actually have something in common and it might lead to something amazing. Well one can only hope or dream I guess. I have met some fantastic friends both in person and blogging on this site and I won't take anyone or anything for granted....especially when you are diagnosed with cancer, you learn to go one day at a time and appreciate the FINER things in life.
Life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss, laugh, love truly and forgive quickly.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the number of moments that take our breath away!!

My Ideal Person: I've learned not to expect anything, it only brings disappointments, heartaches, and builds "walls" that inhibit a relationship. I have learned however, to communicate ones wants and needs and desires of their heart, and what they want or desire from me as a relationship...whether it is friendship, friends with benefits, or more...
So what I'm looking for in a person of either sex,HONESTY, kindness, compassionate, affectionate, showing passion even if it's just sex...ability to communicate their wants and desires, not afraid to "talk" about anything and everything, especially sex, not afraid to try something at least once, I'm into guys, but want some girl fun too, threesomes are fun....I love giving oral to a guy, turns me on quite a bit. haven't had much experience with girls, ..I love foreplay, long passionate kisses, a lap dance or some dirty dancing to a sexy make out session...but sometimes a girl just needs a guy to passionately make love to her and make her feel special and beautiful....

Things I really don't like, is a guy who only wants a blow job and doesn't care about pleasing the lady as well....I don't mind but where's all the pleasure in that?? You want passion in a blow job? Then the guy needs to be adventurous and HOT himself this turns me on even more, believe me, it will be a mind blowing experience besides!!! By the way...I'm NOT into pain...Don't like my hair pulled, BOYS pulled my hair in grade school, MEN stroke and play with my hair, makes me feel sexy and hot, wanted and desired!!!
I like to try new things and I like to please also....communication is a must, I can't read minds!!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list, but I like Phil Collins, Kenny Chesney.....to

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've always wanted to find a remote place outdoors,
under the stars on a warm summer nite, and make love hot and
heavy with just the moon and stars....and I don't mean
a tent!!! Or out on a beach....mmmmmmmm the possibilities!!!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
OMG! Patrick Swayze he's so hot!! Would LOVE to dirty
dance with him!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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