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confusing signals
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confusing signals a friend and i were playing a little slap and tickle until he avoided me in person for a while and when i asked him why he said it made him "uncomfortable" so now i try not to touch him unless it is in a non sexual way. so i was a little confused when he molested me the other day. he was giving me a back rub so i took off my shirt and undid my pants and let him move them to where he wanted them...lol no not down around my ankles... and then he got cute and drew a smiley face on my butt and then he decided he wanted to color in one of my dragons so i undid my bra so he didn't get marker on it. so then i was pretty much naked from the waist up and must have been too tempting because he started playing with stuff. so i of course had to ask why? me: you said you were uncomfortable so i am confused as to why if you are uncomfortable with it, you were playing with me the other day. him: you got naked me: no you basically got me naked him: so you are blaming this on me me: lol. just because it is out doesn't me you have to play with it him: that is like putting toys out and telling a not to play with them. me: you can play with anything you want as long as you aren't a dick head after. and he hasn't been yet but people confuse me. it makes him uncomfortable unless it is something he feels like doing at the time then he does it. that is retarded! i have another friend who does the same thing drunk. when he is drunk if i talk about blowing him he'll say and tickle my prostate while you are at it. but when he is sober he says what i am saying makes him uncomfortable because he is shy... nope i think that makes you multiple personality...lol |
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lol, I think they've got some issues to resolve, just my opinion however
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From the outside looking in and not really knowing 'him' I'd say there are some insecurity issues afoot. How deep and of what nature, I can't say.. Best bet as always is communication! -tm
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Perhaps he has haphephobia (haf″e-fo´be-ә) an irrational fear of being touched. Note the word "irrational". It may also have something to do with when the touching is occurring. If you aren't alone at the time it may be he doesn't like PDA.   The perversity of the universe is unbounded.
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Maybe you should introduce these two to each other, let them issue each other into a frenzy.  Hugs and well placed kisses - Chris
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