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STUPID, STUPID, STUPID MEN
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STUPID, STUPID, STUPID MEN We receive a fair amount of emails from single men who may be responding to a fairly detailed post, or direct email, stating that we might be interested in meeting them. (because we are not adverse to meeting STRAIGHT single males for STRAIGHT MFM, DP and 3P FUN) The majority of these men respond with the fact that, big news here, they are interested, imagine that, they want to have sex, however . . Thats it, end of story, no name (not even a fake name), no suggestions on where to meet, no information about themselves, rarely a thank you for considering them . . nothing, nada . . Now what that tells me is first they are probably attached somehow and screwing around on their partner (or explains why they dont have a partner as well) But second, if they can not bother to invest a little effort in trying to sell themselves to what is a specific invite purportedly to what they are interested in, at what point will they start to pay attention? Where is the seduction, the charm? Who wants to have crappy sex with an inattentive dipshit? and being a man i understand the numbers game of where and how one chooses to invest their time . but when you get a sincere offer and you dont make the effort to reply (assuming your interested), your just being stupid, stupid, stupid. Do not tellme you are interested. We know you are interested and more importantly, INTERESTING, when you reply thoughtfully. just my ongoing rant against inane males and please if you are a bi anything male, (and in our book that includes having your cock touched/sucked off by another guy) do not try to pass yourself off as straight, it rarely works given the easy access to your posts and views of bi curious/sexual groups/posts etc. |
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5/17/2007 9:23 am |
I am always looking for ways to improve my profile and posts in order to increase my chances of meeting some great people for exactly the kind of fun you are looking for. Although it's never fun to be lumped in with the STUPID single guys, this post serves as an informative wakeup call. Thanks and good luck with your search.
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5/17/2007 2:35 pm |
seriously...We hear ya too! Sorry guys we are not interested in helping you screw around on your girlfriend or wife! They should realize that couples who are involved in this lifestyle are not sneaky...DUHHHHHHHHHHHHH! GET A CLUE!
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Ok, have to chime in on this..... Believe it or not, it's damn tough finding a single guy to play with. We agree about the pics and the mail. Every guy has a penis, Tracy is more concerned with how a man looks in general as well as personality. Not sure why most single guys assume that she likes rude and obscene emails. The ones that have made the cut always start out with general conversation and a good sense of humor. just our 2 cents...... Rick & Tracy
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5/17/2007 2:55 pm |
my real problem is being able to contact! seeing as how i am only a standard member points are VERY hard to come by for emails... and when i was a gold member i was one for three months and no one contacted me! i must have written 70 or 80 emails and never got a response! lol i guess thats the luck of the draw! thats why i look for people willing to provide an outside address, hell i have one just for emails like this so if i dont want to talk i just start dumping them! lol oh well....
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5/18/2007 9:41 am |
Im interested , Want to fuck??
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5/19/2007 7:20 am |
we get that too..We cannt the people read.....What do u do..
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One of the things we hate is the single men who try and pass themselves off as a couple. The female half is never there to talk to, etc etc. So he then suggests a threesome with him. Why don't they read the profile?
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5/20/2007 6:51 am |
I have to chime in here. I agree with the fact that there are single men out there who don't know how to read or just don't care what a profile says. I've been contacted by some. However, there are also couples who do the same thing. I'm a single bi-female only looking for other bi-females. I clearly state this on my profile and that I'm not into doing the "couple thing". I have had countless emails from couples wanting me to suck off the husband or whatever. Sorry, not interested. I've gotten to the point where I just delete those emails and don't even bother responding. So I guess ignorance can be evenly distributed.
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5/20/2007 10:41 am |
Glenn, That was an OUTSTANDING post! I could not have said it better.
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5/20/2007 4:52 pm |
I hope that I may never be put into that category! Hello,ctcpl4funtimes. I'm a single male,from Newington. I've dated,and been with,a handful of women,from Passion. I've met with one couple. And,I'd love to meet more fun people,from this sight. I'm respectful,playful,and free as a bird! Hope someone,might ask me if.....I'm smareter than a fifth grader! LoL!.......gee,I hope I am.
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5/20/2007 4:53 pm |
Of course...it would help,if I could spell.....smarter. Ooops,strike one!
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5/21/2007 10:19 am |
I agree with the comments about the pics and rude e-mails. We know you have the equipment gentlemen, a face and body pic would be wonderful. As for all the single gentlemen who send rude or crude e-mails, even if your paying a complement it's a big turn off and usually results in your message being deleted. Great conversation, personality, and a sense of humor are always sexy. Showing genuine and sincere interested is also always appreciated and complement.
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5/22/2007 4:50 pm |
men are very stupid..they do one thing then claim another..My man is so dang dumb..
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6/12/2007 10:37 am |
I have this same problem. I just cut to the chase now and ask if they're bi...because if they're guys and writing to me, they'd better be looking to have a bi 3some with me and my husband. Couples don't always read either and ask me to have a 3some with them. My profile specifically states I will only do 3somes with my husband and another woman or man. But when I bring that up, they say it's worth a shot. All it really does is piss me off because it wastes my time.
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Well, I guess at times I could be guilty of all of the above. My profile is pretty straight forward, my pics are recent (it's just hard to take my own pic..or someone else to take a good one) Believe it or not it is an honest profile. I would assume people read profiles (at least after an e-mail). I do leave e-mails open ended as I would like to see some mutual interest before I set any potential meeting up. I don't have the time. I also like to see if there might be some repartee or willingness to communicate back and forth prior to meeting, expressions of mutual areas of interest besides good orgasms. One will lead to the other. I don't drink or do drugs so I wouldn't say let's meet for drinks. I would like to find a place to meet we would enjoy anyway regardless of outcome. Who knows? If one stays open minded enough they may make a friend, even if they never make it to making it. Odysseus
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1 post 7/28/2007 6:25 am |
HI YOU ARE VERI NICE
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9/22/2008 5:07 pm |
Fussy fussy fussy.  ...  Oh I LIKE that! One is assured that the day when I DO steal that Jet and fly away to ... about 5 locations from which I plan to emerge walking bowlegged for a YEAR! Ha. ... That where I land I will find be found met addressed then undressed meet make love fuck with ... only THE BEST! Benson n Hedges had it right. When only the best will do - call me. Ha. Like you peoples. LIKE you. Byeeee. Julia way over yonder in Aussie land. Boo hoo. (Nah - our piples here are gorgeouskous!) Byeee. xx lick lick xx. All over all over and for a long long time. YONKS! (Aussie for long long time.) And for ANYWHERE! Byeee.  Life is measured by the number of time’s one’s soul is stirred. Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
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