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Discouraged
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Discouraged I have been hesitant to share my with poeple I have met on here and just in general chat online. Here is the reason, the rude ass questions that seem to come from the mouths of guys who just do not think. My takes after his father, who is dark skinned. I do not mean that he is black or hispanic(not that anything is wrong with either black or hispanic men) but his father is part Italian and all the men in his family have darker tan skin and dark hair. Ethan is no different he does. SO somehow when I share the pics of me and Ethan together, I get asked that question. Hello pale skinned china doll type skinned girl here so he does look really dark. But seriously what does it matter anyhow? And why ask that question? I am sad because I was conversing nicely with someone and then I finally sent a pic of me and Ethan and yep he asked. I am thinking damnit Breeanna one day you will learn. I am not ashamed of Ethan by any means but I think I am just even more hesitant to share him. Well I will go to bed a bit discourgaed because I do not know how to feel about this guy anymore. You know how someone can say something and make you just go WTF. That is how I am !  |
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Unfortunately racial stigmas abound in many societies and ours is no different. You never stated what the question actually was but I suppose I can guess what it was. I understand your reluctance to share him and your anger at having to confront such an issue.
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If I were you, I would not share pics of my child with anyone on-line. It adds a completely unnecessary element of risk in your life. It's not much of a risk - probably everyone you meet on-line will be reasonably sane and well-intentioned, but why take any risk at all if not necessary? Maybe after you've met and gotten to know someone for a while you share pics as part of a genuine friendship-building process, but until you meet and experience the chemistry of real-life, you don't really have any idea who you are talking to.
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4/1/2005 1:45 pm |
Everytime I hear/see something like this, I think there can't be anyone more stupid than that. Then someone proves me wrong!!!
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Short term or long term you should never accept anyone into your life that doesn't accept your child. To even suggest that is assinine.
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10/30/2006 2:07 am |
Girl good luck I"m a single mom with three boys and I keep them pretty private til after I've met the man a few times away from my home and family. It takes a lot of trust on my end to invite someone into my family given as how I'm a package deal. The family plan or however you choose to look at it. Keep your son separate from this for a while. Maybe after discussion and a possible meeting show them pictures of you and your child. But your son s a special part of your life and should only be shared with someone equally as special. Besides nothign against anyone personally but tehre are a lot of men on here who just aren't thinking with the right head `Velvet Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.
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