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Late Night Whispers(random rambling)
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Late Night Whispers(random rambling) We all have something we do by ourselves, with no one else watching. For me it's porn. I love to watch porn, but I just can't enjoy porn with other people. Even if it's my lover. I've got this deep seated fear of being labelled. Whether that label be freak, or the more dreaded words like slut or . I'm not sexually deprived, I've had my experimentations. But some of my more daring adventures are profound secrets between me, and whoever acted with me. They are never spoken of in public or referenced unless it's in the most covert manner. It sounds more like some spy story than just me enjoying being tied up, or enjoying the occasional role-play fantasy. But that's exactly how it is. . I've been contemplating the best way to approach what we all dread, dating. At what point in a new relationship do you share things, I mean it's certainly well beyond the first date and most assuredly well beyond the first sexual encounter. There's always that lurking fear in the back of your mind that you'll tell your partner a fantasy and get that glassy eyed, "Oh my god, I can't believe this freak just said that to me" look. In the realm of the female dater, people assume that if you tell your guy a dirty little secret, he'll be more turned on than repulsed but that's not always the case. . Sometimes it feels like you're afraid to be YOU. In a way with online dating being a more social norm you can be the inner YOU and if someone flips out that little red X in the corner is so tempting. You can just close the window and pretend they never existed. . Sometimes you reach this point where you're tired of being alone, even if it doesn't seem like you've been alone very long. . Sometimes you feel like it's too hard to date and you worry about the new person, what to expect and what's expected. Suffering from your own insecurities until you drive yourself nuts. Caring so much about what someone else thinks that you stress yourself into being alone when you don't have to be.  Easily distracted by shiney objects |
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You'll be fine, Jo. Just let things take it's own course. When it feels right, you get to tell stuff. This is where we need our own discretion..not so much about what to tell, but also when. First thing first...take care and love Jojo, and the world will follow. Good luck. hugs, big Sis Cath
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What Rubee said . Be comfortable with Jojo then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. The most desirable women are the ones that are comfortable with themselves. If you are ok with who you see in the mirror then whatever anyone else may think won't matter . . P.S. Nice new pic 
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