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Second Meeting on Aff  

bdth90 33M
12 posts
12/25/2011 5:20 pm
Second Meeting on Aff


Second meeting

This was probably the nail in the coffin for me when it comes to meeting people.

Maybe a month later after my first attempt at meeting some1 I started talking to a guy. I think he said he was 42. It didn’t bother me he was double my age – I was more turned on by it. I like an older guy anyway. They always seem to have better chat.

So we swapped pictures of everything from our faces to our cocks….and everything in-between. He didn’t have webcam, so I found myself going on cam a few times trying to coax him to get 1, and also finding him asking me to remove clothes and the usual chat. Found myself beating off for him quite a few times but he promised to return the favour.

He was a nice looking guy from the pictures and thought he’d be less of a prick than my first experience. Plus he was hairy in all the right places which had me at an instant boner.

I thought I’d play this one a bit longer and make sure he was definitely interested. By the time we came to meet I had started back uni. We agreed to meet in a pub. I had his phone number, and he knew about my past bad experience but promised it wouldn’t be like that.

So was sitting in this pub that I’d never heard of in my life down some back street in Glasgow again. I know how to get to it. but now avoid it, and can’t for the life of me remember its name. I was there early again – thought I’d get a bit of courage in me since this time we had planned what we’d do after our meet and greet if we still were interested.

Lets just say it involved his flat, the removal of clothes, and him ‘making it up to me’ for not having a webcam.

I didn’t recognise him when he turned up. He said he was 42, and to be fair his pictures did look roughly in that age range. Maybe mid 30s to mid 40s. In reality, he looked somewhere between 65-70, and was at least a good few stone heavier round the middle than his pictures suggested. Also, his face didn’t really suit the one in the picture, making me think it wasn’t him. I’d never have noticed him if he hadn’t came over, sat next to me and slid his hand under the table and up my leg while passing my a drink he’d bought me.

I have nothing against guys who are quite a bit older; it’s just not what I was expecting and was no longer doing it for me. He came across quite dominant in conversation. Eventually, after all this dutch-courage, I needed the loo. Anyway let him know I was just off to the mens and I’d be back.

Although I wasn’t interested in the guy anymore I felt it was only nice to talk for a while and then say I’d need t go rather than leave right away. This was probably my mistake.

So I’m standing there taking a piss. Toilets quiet – no1 else there but me as far as I knew. Next thing, he comes in and stands next to me, smiles and takes out his dick. You just sorta laugh it off thinking oh he obviously needed a piss too. What u don’t expect to happen is him to reach down and start to tug at you like ur a bit of rope in a tug of war.

By this point I’d backed away from the urinal and had started to say I was sorry but I wasn’t really up for this while tucking my dick back inside my jeans. He just came closer tho and kept saying ‘you’re well up for this’ while pulling at my clothes, ass and crotch.

He was getting far to rough, I was worried incase anyone would walk in, and I’d had enough because he wasn’t taking no for an answer. Eventually I had to push him back, tell him I’d had enough and walked out the pub. In a way it scared me a bit. I was in an unfamiliar location with some1 I didn’t really know. I eventually got abusive e-mails sent to me from him saying that I was a ‘right slag’ and had led him on. In the end I ignored it for a while but had to report him to Passion.

Never heard from him since.

Since then I’ve been so much more wary. I now only give out mobile numbers after a good while of e-mail contact. And don’t usually go for meets until I really get to know some1. Guess I learnt the hard way

2titsnowaiting 57F
1546 posts
12/25/2011 6:23 pm

I'm so sorry you've had to learn the hard way, but I'm glad it wasn't a harder lesson than it was. It's definitely wise to err on the cautious side and learn about the people you would consider meeting. In addition, I would never let someone think they would get any action on first meeting. That should be clearly a meet and greet and nothing more, for safety purposes. Please be careful going forward. I'd hate to think of something happening to you.

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rockinr55 67M
1689 posts
12/25/2011 6:43 pm



I am sorry to hear about your experience. I am an older gentleman that likes younger guys, but I do not contact younger guys if their profile has a red X by "age". My profile picture is me taken last March, and the rest of my profile is accurate. I've always felt there is nothing to be gained by having a fake or old picture, or lie about other things, because your cover will be blown when you meet.

I've chatted or exchanged emails with some really hot younger guys, but when I've sent some pictures, or talked about things I like to do (whether inside the bedroom or out), I've sometimes been told by the other guy that it isn't really what they're looking for. Sure, I may be disappointed, but the way I look at it, there's nothing to be gained by forcing the issue, so I just back right off. After all, I don't want to hook up with someone who doesn't have things in common with me either. I may be old-fashioned, but for me, there has to be something more than the sex to make it work.

I hope you someday find what (or who) you're looking for here.


Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.---E.E. Cummings



bdth90 33M
6 posts
12/26/2011 3:10 pm

Thank you both for your comments. They mean a lot to me.

I suppose I got caught up in the whole idea of meeting to begin with. You always think ‘that won’t happen to me’ or something like that. I just felt the need to make at least one post on it to even help someone else form making the same mistake. It does happen, not everyone is honest.

You will both be happy to know, I have learnt my lesson. And now employ every safety measure possible < annoyingly so (to some). Then again, you’re better safe than sorry.


rm_gary2932 52M
1 post
12/6/2012 1:59 pm

sorry to hear that there loss ah x


bdth90 33M
6 posts
1/21/2013 5:24 pm

You're right, it is their loss. If i'm honest, although i wasn't interested in him anymore, i would still have either given him a HJ or would have been happy to have a wanking session. He sorta ruined it for himself really.


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