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Breaking up is a chance for opening up  

rm_Jo1982007 41M
12 posts
3/21/2014 8:57 pm
Breaking up is a chance for opening up


Nearly a couple of decades back when I separated from my
Childhood sweet heart it was unbearable. I promised myself
never to fall in love again. For another couple of years
I religiously kept true to my word. Never even spoke to any
girls. All my thoughts were on getting her back. Those were
the pre- days of my life.

But soon I found my true love... or so i thought. the new relationship
erased the scars of the past. it was a long relationship
which lasted 7 long years. During those days never in our
worst nightmares we dreamed about being separated. But
eventually her need for a stable life made her ditch me for
a higher income earner. Once again it became hard for me
to cope with the situation.

Its during that phase i read in somewhere that "change
is the only thing that will not change". It took me
some time to understand that. Ss, I'll leave it there
for you guys to explore more. It was however a liberating
thought which helped me to introspect into my relationship
and thought process. After that I had a string of relationships
and break ups. each breakup gave me something to look ahead
for.

Today I am much more wealthier. And I am really thankful
to her for ditching me at that point.

So, guys shit happens and whenever it happens its for good.
Most of us feel like its the end of the world when someone
breakup with us. Believe me, its just the start of a new Journey.

In my following articles I'll take you through some
of mine and my friends experiences and I will do my best to
make it interesting and not as boring as this piece of crap
here.

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