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Learning Life Lessons...
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Learning Life Lessons... Hello Naughty Friends, Boy , does time fly. It is already March and it seems I've been unsuccessful with my Blog return. Life has been throwing me a lot of curve balls. Some good and some bad however I have been learning a lot of life lessons. For the last couple of months I've been helping take care of my Aunt. Her cancer spread and it had been very overwhelming and stressful. When my mother past away I learned empathy. With my Aunt I am learning patience. These are two qualities I did not have in my earlier years. At least I'm gaining knowledge so that is a positive. Two years ago after my accident I decided to try retire from the restaurant business. After 20 plus years of waiting tables and bartending I decided to take the chance and start my own business. A lot of up and downs, but I loved it. It was refreshing not to have to follow corporate policies and only have to answer to myself . Sad to say I failed. I had to suck up my pride and now I'm back to waiting tables. My worst nightmare. Pretending I like people. I am going to be that seventy year old lady who is serving you pancakes. I am never going to be able to retire. That has been a hard pill to swallow. On the bright side. The money is good and interacting with people has helped my anxiety and depression. I'm hoping to blog more but to be quite honest I haven't had the desire. I've always used this format as a escape. I love my blogging community. I've been very disappointed in peoples ( bloggers ) behavior. It is not a competition. This is not real life. It is not that fucking serious. I just wanted to drop by and say HI. I hope everyone is doing well. It is not that hard to be kind to eachother. Happy Moan day to ya!!    |
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I do not expect a lot of responses, but I miss my blogging community.
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Glad to see the post. I have to admit every time I see you online I jump over to my watched blogs to see if you're posting something new. Your posts always make me smile. Have a great day, even if you're serving some schlub pancakes. It's far better of a day than many are having. Tom
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Oh my friend I am so sorry to hear about your aunt my friend.. . You know I was in the waitress industry for a while myself and bartended for over twenty years best job I ever had. As I am a people person, I am so glad to hear it's helping you with your depression.And hun I agree with you about blog land, as we feel the same way, it's not a competition, and it's not a place for jealousy either. I wish you all the success in the world my friend and I am keeping you and your aunt in my prayers hun..take care..  Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Happy moan day to you. Your picture look great. Glad to see you blog. Missed you in February. Yes there is a hateful, conceited blogger on here and I suppose some people support them. Hopefully we can make them disappear. Take care of yourself.
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3/2/2020 10:47 am |
Hello my lovely friend. It is good to see you once more. I hope that all goes well with your aunt and for yourself as well. Beautiful pics to my friend. Have a wonderful Monday.  "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Sorry to hear about your struggles of late, cancer sucks and i feel for you and your aunt. Also sorry to hear about the loss of your business, waiting tables can be a stepping stone to something better. Many businesses fail on their first attempt so perhaps you can try again. Good luck to you in whatever you do.
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I'm sorry to hear about your troubles.. I hope that things improve, and I'll keep you and your Aunt in my thoughts...
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3/2/2020 3:01 pm |
sorry things have been tough, but I would love to get to know you. You are simply gorgeous....love that pretty face and gorgeous body....
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3/2/2020 3:04 pm |
Hey beautiful. I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. Please let me know if I can be of support x
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Good to see you here. You did your best running your own business and I can empathise with you. I had to give up the shop because the rent was too high, although I still help out the new owner. I'm sorry to hear about your aunt. I was a carer for my mother and yes, that was very stressful at times. 
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very lovely pics sweetie hang in there {=}
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Nice to see you Hottie . . have missed those bright, smiling, alluring eyes. Have been though the caregiver to dying person scenario too, and it's tough. "At least I'm gaining knowledge so that is a positive" Yeah, that was my takeaway too and it's of some consolation.
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Glad to see you here. Sorry about the downs but without them we wouldn't know how nice the good times are. Empathy and patience are exceptional virtues. Many a person needs much more of them. Keeping you in my thoughts my friend.
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Trust all is okay with you.... Take care young lady....
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Jeanie, you are a wonderful lady. Life has its ways to make one think they are not where you should be. It is a journey, don't give up. Don't give up on your dreams there are more opportunities out there. Wished I could show you how you can retire with dignity. It is very feasible and you don't have to depend on anyone but your talents. Every successful individual many setbacks.
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Keep working hard and your dreams will come true. You a beautiful woman both inside and out.
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Big hug, things will get better, it takes time and patience but I believe things always turn around. Blog for you and what it brings you, don't let a bully control something that gives you an escape.
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Hottie....i missed you !! Im lifting you and your aunt up in prayers...prayer for calmness of spirit. IF your business is an enjoyable one.....can you do it part time...on the side as a side hustle? That way you will still be earning an income from your other job but still doing something personal for you. I know it will be crazy fitting in the caregiving aspect too tho. That in itself requires emotional stamina. Been there done that. You crack me up @ " pretending i like people"... THAT is draining too....lol I wish people heeded the notion of , " if ya cant say something nice, say nothing at all." In a world where we can be many things....choose to be kind. Thinking of you gurl ~~
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Hi Jeannie, I adore you because you are incredibly caring and thoughtful, which makes you such a beautiful woman to me. And of course I love your eyes! I hate it when disrespectful people invade the blogs! Take care and I wish you the best always! Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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darn darn darn..............I go into withdrawal when I do not see you........then when I do see you mmmmmmmmmm..........very nice
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goood to hear from you and see you again.
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You look great! Welcome back and good luck. Ted
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Good morning sunshine hope your day is as beautiful as you. Sorry for your lost your s good woman to take time out of your life for someone else. Sorry your business didn't work out you tryed that's better then most. Your working that better then many You are blessed in many ways The smile on your face makes me happy today. Xoxoxo Thomas
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would not mind being served food by you, know that cancer is bad having lost grandmother and grandfather, have seen also how someone loses their memory and passes away
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Thanks for the update, I was wondering if all was OK. Seems like you are going through a lot. If you ever need to talk I am always here. You should be proud of yourself for taking the chance to start your own business, success or not, you stepped out and did it and that takes a lot of courage. I am sorry to hear about your Aunt, it's always hard caring for someone you love that is struggling through a disease. Prayers for her and you. Blog and you can as I enjoy your blog and pictures. It's about a release for sure. Don't worry about all those nay sayers. They just have nothing better to do. Write me anytime Hotmamamm! Cheers! 
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