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When Meeting- What is More Important to You????  

ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
10/24/2016 12:17 am

Looks plus physical appearance. That's not an objectification, just animal instinct. You usually "see" someone before you engage verbally and intellectually.


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
10/24/2016 1:41 am

Both actually
One can enhance, or mitigate the other

Cheers my lady - P


good_daddy_meat 58M
130 posts
10/24/2016 3:45 am

I like a nice mix of both


bluelad24 62M
81 posts
10/24/2016 5:43 am

everyone is attracted to looks to start with, then personalty takes over. you can always have chemistry with some who you thought was not really your type or attractive to start with. Same as you can be with the most gorgeous looking person but find them ugly because of their personalty.


freddie8951 72M/70F
133 posts
10/24/2016 6:27 am

personality for sure


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
10/24/2016 7:10 am

Looks get me interested, personality keeps me interested.


rm_raging_hard1 53M
200 posts
10/24/2016 1:25 pm

In your case, that would be a tough choice Yes, men are visual creatures and can be very forgiving of other short comings if the girl is a knockout. I think it depends on more what you're looking for. A FWB or LTR. I think your personality would stand the test of time


Shots30 48M
2312 posts
10/24/2016 1:33 pm

Personality is more important to me than looks. But I still do want an attractive person. But if you don't have a personality it won't be a long friendship.

Cheers!


pilate32 44M
37 posts
10/24/2016 2:11 pm

It's really a combination of looks and personality for me. Looks generally come first slightly, but if someone has an amazing personality then they also can become more physically attractive.


luvexotic 62M

10/24/2016 4:29 pm

Personality then looks


Steveo57VA 66M
6 posts
10/24/2016 4:53 pm

Femininity. Is she comfortable with being feminine. It is not about traditional "man strong, woman weak", but about how she enjoys being feminine whether she is a strong, hardnosed business woman or a soft flower that flows with the wind. I think looks are the first clue in that...but obviously the personality is the true test of it.


Desir4Fire 49M
2387 posts
10/24/2016 5:04 pm

Personality and Chemistry
I have met some really ugly-attitude good looking people


LustyFun77 47M

10/25/2016 3:03 am

I don't think you can have just one, if you are not physically attracted it is not going to work, but also if you meet some one and they are a box of rocks, it wont work either. But if you make me pick it depends on a one situation, for just one night of fun, I would choice looks, for something longer than that, personality.


cockinhand4uNow 60M
1373 posts
10/25/2016 10:03 am

You don't have anything to worry about...you have both looks and personality


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