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Selection Processes
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Selection Processes Good Afternoon All!!! I have a few posts in me today so bear with me. Why do people who are either new to the lifestyle or vanilla think that everyone in the lifestyle will fuck anybody? That is completely and totally untrue. Most of us have standards. I know I do. We all know that I am sapiosexual first. There has got to be some kind of intellectual attraction between us before I even consider a horizontal relationship with you. Sorry....I just can't have sex with people who are not either my intellectual equal or superior. For me, it makes a difference. Physically, I guess I really don't have a type. I do have some restrictions. This is meant as no disrespect for anyone, it's just my thing. I like black men......A LOT. I have experimented in the past with other ethnicities, but black men take the prize for me. I like taller men. That doesn't mean that shorter men are excluded. I just find myself more attracted to taller men. I don't like super skinny men or super obese men. If we have sex, I don't want to break a bone or be covered in sweat from someone who is winded off the first couple of strokes. Again, not complete deal breakers but preferences. Generally, if I don't want to be seen in public with you, I won't entertain you privately either. No doo-rags, saggy pants, unkept hair, overgrown facial hair or torn up shoes. If your smile needs help, get it. If I smell you (in a bad way) before I see you, chances are, I'll walk right passed you and not even stop. We're grown. Take care of yourself. I take awesome care of myself so I expect the same. No sir....you don't have to have a 12 inch penis that is 4 fingers thick. But you'll get nowhere with me if you have 3 inch penis that is 1 finger thick. (honestly, what am I supposed to do with that). Be able to work what you have. Communication is key. As long as we can talk and agree on whatever it is we're gonna do, we should be fine. But let's please be mature and adult enough say, you're not my cup or tea or I don't think this will work. Just my two cents.... |
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I'm curious as to why a grown man (literally) would need to be reminded of the things you cite, which are standard. Now the parts about size, those are the preferences and they are non-standard. But I got you covered!
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