Hot as Hell in NYC and not in a good way
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Posted:Jul 4, 2018 9:42 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 6:5 pm
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Yeah, the recent heat wave has made thoughts of going out and having fun less important than being stationary and close to an air conditioner. Unless you're in the shower and have waterproof toys, the idea of sharing kinky goodies isn't as much fun as you'd think.
Of course, getting hot and sweaty with your playmates is always fun, but somehow the fantasy of teasing in public and a personal fantasy of teasing a woman under her skirt (carefully out of view, of course) isn't as much fun unless we're both horny as Hell.
Oh who am I kidding. I would love to get sweaty with at least one kinky woman right now.
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Once More for the Cheap Fuckin' Seats
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Posted:Jun 17, 2018 10:04 am
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2018 9:43 am
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OK, I'm getting really tired of saying this, and please forgive the profanity that follows, but the safety is flicked off.
I apologize in advance if you're a standard member like me, but chances are that IF you're a standard member like me and you can read this, you can read some of the other shit I've posted on my blog.
Lemme lay it out for you cheap shitbags.
I have some kinks and a fetish or two, specifically for toys (yes, I mean ass play), and a leg fetish, especially in stockings & hose. Sometimes I jerk off while wearing hose, and one playmate got turned on knowing I was in the hose she just got creamy.
I love eating out, and I have no problem kissing after 69. I had a girlfriend once who both turned me on to ass play as well as toys, but oddly enough she wasn't into kissing after 69.
I get turned on by transsexual porn, rimming, etc, but I don't get turned on by gay male porn or fantasies. That just doesn't do it for me.
I LOVE a woman who can hit her g-spot, and just thinking about that is getting me horny.
Why mention all of this? Because it could and HAS happened that I'd send someone a friend request via the Passion IM system, but they hadn't apparently seen my profile or done their research about who I am. If something comes up in our conversations that makes you uncomfortable, I really can't understand that. If you ask for pics during our conversation and make the rest of the conversation conditional upon receipt of dick pics, I have a HUGE problem.
I have no problem sending you my photos either here or via email, and I LOVE phone sex, but if you're going to make something conditional, or if I get the sense that you're not only NOT into the same shit as me, AND you dismiss one of the things that turns me on, WHY WASTE MY MOTHERFUCKING TIME?
That doesn't make sense to me.
And once again, I understand how some people are comfortable posting photos, videos, etc. on their profiles, but I am perpetually amused when people post disclaimers about "unauthorized use" of their photos. You may not realize it, but there are apps available that will allow you to download videos on popular sites. No, I'm not going to get into that. Clicking and dragging a photo to your desktop is easy as is taking a screen cap and then sizing it down to the photo you want to steal/use.
During every media award season, there's usually the problem of leaked screener copies of TV shows & movies, meaning unlawful use of intellectual property, so I really don't see the need to post my dick pics unless I trust you. If I lose trust in you, you get blocked at best, and ignored at worst. I wish I didn't have to be so blunt about things, but I'm not here to entertain trolls and scammers. I'm here to find a playmate and hopefully more than that.
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Gotta Love Messages from Fake Accounts
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Posted:Jun 13, 2018 9:47 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2018 4:10 pm
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So I'm killing time looking for what we're all looking for - companionship, a quick shot, or indulging some kinky appetites. Going through the IM system means I get the same fucking message from the same individual NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I block that member within the IM system.
Closing the IM window doesn't . Closing out the main browser window doesn't . (I'm not on a mobile device when here. Too many things to juggle with hands. Read into that what you will). I've unfriended people either because they were seemingly cool with a chat and then not into the same kinks and fetishes as me, or they simply weren't responding after a few attempts. Very rarely do I see them back on my friends list, but getting messages allegedly from members who conveniently live in the same area as me AFTER I block them is getting annoying.
Is anybody else having this problem?
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Getting Tired of Fake People
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Posted:May 27, 2018 11:10 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2018 4:32 pm
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When I say "Fake People," I mean having an IM chat only to realize that the person is full of shit and more than likely one of several people in a boiler room scenario pretending to be what I'm looking for, saying all the right things, and THEN realizing that they're running a scam to get me to buy a membership on their webcam site.
If I wanted to watch porn, how goddamned difficult is it to get GOOD porn online? OK, I love porn, but I'd rather have a solid connection with a good kinky open minded woman (and porn). The kind of woman who appreciates rechargeable batteries. The kind of woman who shares her toys. The kind of woman who keeps gatorade in the fridge because she gets hot and sweaty during sex and needs to refuel.
Now as to why I don't post photos here, I've seen people RIGHTFULLY complain about people using their photos without their consent. I've seen people post a disclaimer on their profile saying that because of some legislation or clause, use of their photos WITHOUT their consent is illegal.
That's cute.
If blu ray quality movies are illegally posted online regularly, do you REALLY think that someone is going to give two dry shits about your disclaimer? If someone wants to use your photos, they bloody well will. If you want to get to know me, what I just said makes it that much more difficult for you to connect with me, but my policy of NOT sharing photos on my profile (aside from IM chats or by email) protects me. I have met a handful of people this way, and I would rathe protect myself and you by showing that I may be paranoid, but I am trustworthy and NOT a fake person.
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If You're Not Perfect, Why Ask Others to Be Perfect?
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Posted:May 20, 2018 10:37 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2018 4:33 pm
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I don't look at mens' profiles, because that's not what I'm looking for, but I assume that men (straight, bi, fluid, etc) are just as guilty as women if not more so with demanding what they're looking for.
Ladies, If you've EVER faced some jagoff shitbag who's given you the stinkeye if you weren't a size 4, I'm sorry. If you've ever felt awkward about describing yourself as even a "BBW" because perhaps you might be a bit more than curvy or you suspect you might get the stinkeye from someone you might meet for real, well, I'm dreadfully sorry.
I've known some egotistical delusional assholes both male and female, and I've wanted to humiliate them at best and go medieval on them at worst. If you act like you're smarter and wiser than you really are, well, remember how Joffrey Baratheon ended up? If you act like you're God's Gift with Nipples and a Clit, and you're really a delusional turd with a pulse, enjoy your fantasy, but DON'T inflict your bullshit on other people.
Some of us are here to get laid. Some of us are here to explore sexuality with others. Some of us are brave enough to admit that we're simply looking for acceptance. If you don't fit the image of a gorgeous porn star, don't expect anything more than ridicule IF you say "no fatties," or "must have an 8"+ cock." I've known porn stars, and they are some of the LEAST body shaming people you'd ever come across.
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Passing by a Sex Club
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Posted:Apr 1, 2018 11:40 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2018 11:58 am
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As any New Yorker will tell you, real estate in NYC is a bitch. You can see your favorite pizza parlor disappear in the blink of an eye and see some chain fast food joint come and go in even less time. That's why passing by a building in Grammercy has always been interesting because as long as I've known, "Le Trapeze" has always been in one spot but nobody has ever been seen going in or out.
From what I understand, it's a sex club with precautions, screenings, and the kind of security that would make it seem like a closed off building. Oddly enough, there's never been a "for sale" sign at that address. The windows have all been blacked out, and it sounds like there's some pretty heavy duty ventilation in that place. That makes sense, because if you have that many sweaty people fucking, sucking, licking and doing all sorts of other naughty things to each other, you're gonna need some good ventilation.
But how to get in? Is it an "anything goes" sort of place? Is it sectioned off for heterosexual, homosexual, bi, and/or trans fun? I'm open minded enough to be up for anything goes with a woman and possibly even a trans playmate, and just thinking about that place is getting me horny.
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So It Ain't Your Cup of Tea
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Posted:Mar 6, 2018 8:27 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2018 6:39 pm
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I confess that I may not be quite as upfront and honest about what turns my crank, because when people hear the word "fetish," it can conjure up all sorts of different things. Dressing up, role play, pain, scat, water sports, voyeurism, etc.
In my case, it's sheer pantyhose, legs. ass play, women who have g-spot orgasms, toys, and sometimes fantasies about being with transsexuals
Yes, when I say pantyhose, sometimes I wear them. It felt like that first dive off the diving board (and not just jumping into the water) to admit that turns me on, but I also found "Leg Show" magazine, and that helped. All I'm looking for really is someone who enjoys that same sort of thing and hopefully who shares toys as well as using them.
Hopefully being with a woman who likes pegging, rimming, - whatever you want to call it.
But to engage in cybersex with someone who is open, passionate, and receptive to my hose fetish is one thing. to suddenly back off from playing with toys confuses me. I've learned not to pass judgement on other people because of what makes them cum.
I just hate misreading someone and misreading the potential for realization of fantasies. Ah well.
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