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Ladies What do YOU Expect on a Meet and Greet
This is really confusing to me. I was turned downed by a woman who I have been chatting and talking to for a couple of months or so, not because I was not attractive, charming, or did not have a good sense of humor. I was turned down FOR BEING A GENTLEMEN on our meet and greet. Just like anyone else, I got defensive. LOL. Plus she said that "I strung her alone too long. I told her, "I had to screen you to see if who are you who say you are." So women let me know what the deal is. Hey there is no doubt that I can handle my own between the sheets. It was just different. This has never happened to me before.
So please give me some feedback on this.
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i don't do meet and greet, i do meet and fuck. if i've talked with someone long enough to meet them, we meet at a room.
ozworld1000 replies on 6/15/2008 9:21 pm:
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only thing I expect is that someone keep their word about showing up and being on time ..other then that I have no expectations..can't get let down that way
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CLB,
I know the feeling bruh. I was told by 2 different females from this site that I was shy and reserved because I was trying to be a gentleman. Even though we met on a sex site, I still try to come across as a gentleman and then I'll be that freak in the bed. Confusing...hell yeah. Do you ladies want a pussy hunting dog or someone who is going to give you the respect you deserve before giving you the fuck that you deserve?
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Well, I will do meet and greets as I will not do meet and fucks. So I welcome the Gentlemenly behavior.
This is why I have my 24 hr rule!
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Guess you guys are lucky that some of us actually prefer men to be Gentlemen without that meaning that you are weak or unable to defend us if the situation should require it. Just so long as that same man knows when to stop being a gentleman and start with the fun 
So you guys know in some ways we women get the opposite side of the coin, some men presume that because we are on this site that means that we will have sex with any man just because he says he's horny. I even had one send me a message asking me what I would do for $3000 and that he would be in town that week. EXCUSE ME? Did I have a sign up saying I was available for a price? [interestingly enough I have never had a black man disrespect me in such a way on here LOL guess thats one of the things I love about you all, being treated with some respect]
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I look for a gentleman who's got a wild side. I need to be able to take him to classy events and know how to act and look respectable. But when it's time to play - I want the fuck I deserve. Only AFTER I get the respect I deserve.
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If she doesn't want to meet a gentleman, then I have better things to do with my time also. Any woman that I talk to for more than one conversation will already know the kind of man that I am. This gentleman that walks through the door to her room will be one of the best fucks she's ever had. End of story. If she's not down with that, that's cool too. NEXT!!!!
I can understand your frustration, having wasted your time. But she probably did you a huge favor. She saved you the time of having to get undressed before you found out that she was a flake.
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I would expect a guy to behave as a gentleman when we meet. Anyone I have met on here would know from my profile what to expect. I do meet and greets. Beyond showing up the fucking part is optional, I want them to know that just because I have agreed to meet them I have not agreed to fuck them. Some men have been so bold as to ask me if I/we will be fucking if he 'bothers' to meet me. Pretty much after a comment like that, I do not go. Once they throw it out there that they EXPECT to fuck me cause they are being troubled to meet me I no longer bother to meet with them. This came from experience. If they threw it out there like that and I met them, they have that whole 'We are fucking' mentality. They seem to think they are a shoe in and either don't have any social graces or the blood has already started traveling south. Same goes for the tourists in my fair city. If they contact me and give me their hotel room number, I tell them to nm. I mean come on do some self proclaimed 'gentlemen' think meeting in their room for the first face to face is realistic??
That said. I have met guys and we were getting busy within the hour.
There have also been some men that I backed out of meeting because just prior to the meet they tell me 'I am so horny I can't wait to meet you' WTF is that?? I mean I'm sorry, but I pretty much make the assumption that ALL men are horny. Them telling me they are horny sort of gives me the impression they lack social skill and/or game.
I believe I have said it before, I sometimes have to feel for men. Us ladies all have different ideas on what we like/don't like men to do when they are trying to show interest. However, I feel a man should error on the side of caution when it comes to meeting a new person.
There have also been times when I have told a man I was interested and he does not make a move for a while. When he finally does I may no longer be interested. Sometimes I feel that if he was REALLY interested in me, then he would have made a move early on. I don't want to be a choice he is making cause no one else is available. If that makes sense. I have made the statement 'My p*ssy don't have a shelf life'. A guy better get at it when it is offered. Beyond saying I am interested I don't think I need to throw myself at him. I know some men NEED this, but if that is the case I am not the woman for him.
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There can certainly be reasons that I step back at the last minute (as noted, a guy giving we ladies the impression that they believe we're a foregone conclusion or that they don't need to have game to get with us often kills it). I also hate it when guys just keep insisting or trying to manipulate once it's clear that they aren't getting any. It's like, "Oh COME ON! Do you truly have this little respect for women and think I'm that damny stupid?" Ach.
However, I will note that being a gentleman doesn't keep you from getting some from me, in the least, but not pursuing at all will lessen your chances considerably. I can be easily distractable, and men need to keep saying howdy and chatting with me once we've established we're interested in order for me to prioritize them for playtime. Kinda lame, but honest!
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Size,
that is what I am saying about the guys that don't make any sort of move once I have said I was interested. My thinking is if I am throwing myself at him he will think I am 'willing' to do ANYTHING once we get in bed together because I am so enamored with him. I might be wrong, but it is how my brain works *shrug*. I too prioritize the guys by how they interact with me after interest has been established. AFTER we have played THEN I can be a booty call. Just because we have met does not mean they can keep me on the line until they decide they are 'in need'.
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pretty,
I am talking one on one meets. I too get annoyed at group meets that people 'expect' to get laid. We state when we are throwing them they are 'Meet and Greets' not 'Meet and Fucks'.
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I consider myself to be a gentleman so if that's a problem for the woman that I'm meeting expects a rude and disrespectful guy then...  because as a MAN I am supposed to treat a woman with respect. However, I do believe there's a time and a place for everything.
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i'm new at this game, if we're feeling it then a 2nd meet should be made, 1st time is steep but that's me
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